ERECTION/AROUSAL STRUGGLES

[BigM]

Is it ever going to get back to what i used to be? I came a long way, started my reboot latest yr(September). Initially I had trouble getting it up at all. I'm glad I can get random elections once in a while when I'm alone. I'm however frustrated by the fact that I hang out with women but still feel no attraction to them, I can't get the arousal feeling I used to get before I got binged to porn. I have been patient long enough, I clearly know a habit that was built over a span of 10 yrs won't get corrected in less than a yr. I just wanna know if we got any members in the forum who went through what I'm experiencing and triumphed. My only worry is arousal, I really want the vigor back, I want the confidence I had, right now I'm not sure if I can drop a ladies pant and get a boner. I'm grateful this far I came, it's never linear- I MOed like twice, once in January and February respectively. Is their anyone going through what I'm experiencing?

 

[Tryinghere]

Is it ever going to get back to what i used to be? I came a long way, started my reboot latest yr(September). Initially I had trouble getting it up at all. I'm glad I can get random elections once in a while when I'm alone. I'm however frustrated by the fact that I hang out with women but still feel no attraction to them, I can't get the arousal feeling I used to get before I got binged to porn. I have been patient long enough, I clearly know a habit that was built over a span of 10 yrs won't get corrected in less than a yr. I just wanna know if we got any members in the forum who went through what I'm experiencing and triumphed. My only worry is arousal, I really want the vigor back, I want the confidence I had, right now I'm not sure if I can drop a ladies pant and get a boner. I'm grateful this far I came, it's never linear- I MOed like twice, once in January and February respectively. Is their anyone going through what I'm experiencing?

I’m there w you man. I’ve had sex a handful of times but not at all confident that it’ll work next time. Good luck man.

 

[Fappy]

You WILL get it back. That’s a fact. If you stick to the reboot your body will naturally regain its normal functions, it has to. Your problem is completely reversible, it’s a biological process so just trust it. I’ve been there before and got through it and so will you. Have faith in the process because it’s the only method that provides a cure

 

[LionHeart]

I know exactly what you mean. It's flatline my friend, and no,you are not the only special case in this universe who doesn't heal over time even when you think so. Don't let your devious brain trick you to believe so. You WILL HEAL! Just stay away from porn.

My arrousal, libido, sex drive, interrest in girls and gladly to porn also have been missing few weeks already, till this day. I feel something has returned today. I kinda want sex. Boners are easy and hard and they last longer without stimulation. I though that there's no way in hell my libido will come back coz the total lack of it felt so deep and eternal. But here we are.. it's comming back but i also believe it will go away again just to return one day again.

Your libido will come back. Don't let the absence of libido crush your spirit.