This is how I see it as well. My lady isn't bothered by porn (which was nice), but it's not possible for me to only "look at it a little bit." So the end game for me is the same - porn never again. And quite frankly, having not looked at it for a long time once then watching it again, you realize how fucked up it all is - pretty disgusting really.If it were possible for me to have a healthy relationship with it, and assuming my wife wasn't bothered by it, then sure, maybe I would indulge in it occasionally, like alcohol or junk food or whatever
But I have learned that I cannot have a healthy relationship with porn - so the end game is never to watch it again
Nice work Chuckles and this is a good question. I think in the end, you have to know for yourself if it's something you can honestly control or not. If you can, great, but if you can't, great as well. For me, it's just too much to handle.