Chuckles
Active Member
As far as MO -> PMO, I personally was able to stop P while maintaining MO. But for me I had to fantasize about my past sexual encounters, and that might present a problem for you. If you think about her, you'll feel more compelled to try to get in bed with her again. If you think about someone else, that's cheating adjacent. If you think about porn... well don't do that, that's a terrible idea.
I am by no means an expert in dating or wooing, but if you want advice...
She fell in love with you for a reason. Remember who you were when you met, and what she fell for. Channel that guy. You'll probably get bonus points if you can recreate one of your first dates or magic moments.
I suspect she'll be attracted to watching you become a better man. For yourself AND for her. Not just one or the other. Women like men who have their own thing going on, with enough room for someone else. Too much room is too needy/clingy. Not enough is aloof and uncaring.
You set a goal for yourself. Focus on that goal. She'll notice
edit: To be clear, men like those kinds of women too, that have enough of their own thing going on. I might have come off sexist there.
I am by no means an expert in dating or wooing, but if you want advice...
She fell in love with you for a reason. Remember who you were when you met, and what she fell for. Channel that guy. You'll probably get bonus points if you can recreate one of your first dates or magic moments.
I suspect she'll be attracted to watching you become a better man. For yourself AND for her. Not just one or the other. Women like men who have their own thing going on, with enough room for someone else. Too much room is too needy/clingy. Not enough is aloof and uncaring.
You set a goal for yourself. Focus on that goal. She'll notice
edit: To be clear, men like those kinds of women too, that have enough of their own thing going on. I might have come off sexist there.
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