reboot_8716
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I’m 44 days free from watching porn. I’ve noticed certainly an improvement in the overall strength of my erections, but my PE has gotten worse over time. I went 28 days with no MO and when I did it literally only took a few strokes, not even fully hard, before my brain was rushing to ejaculate.
If I ever stop and think about my genitals I can feel a tingling sensation in them as if they’re being aroused, even if I’m not horny or touching them at all. It’s very distressing because it feels like I’ve got absolutely zero stamina. The few times I’ve tried to have sex with my wife I’ve ejaculated before being hard enough to penetrate.
I’ve spoken with a urologist and they’ve said it’s all psychological, but this feels deeper. I used to be on an SSRI and stopped taking them 2 years ago. While this problem didn’t start until more like 6-8 months ago, I’ve also read that SSRIs can permanently affect one’s sensitivity and lead to persistent problems with it, which I now fear that I have. The urologist said all they can do is re-prescribe me the SSRI, but I don’t really want to get back on them if they could have been a source of this problem to begin with.
does anyone else experience this level of sensitivity in their recovery? Is this all in my head and I just need to work on relaxing? I’m definitely stressed so that’s very possible, but it’s hard to feel like there’s a solution when my stamina is literally at 0.
If I ever stop and think about my genitals I can feel a tingling sensation in them as if they’re being aroused, even if I’m not horny or touching them at all. It’s very distressing because it feels like I’ve got absolutely zero stamina. The few times I’ve tried to have sex with my wife I’ve ejaculated before being hard enough to penetrate.
I’ve spoken with a urologist and they’ve said it’s all psychological, but this feels deeper. I used to be on an SSRI and stopped taking them 2 years ago. While this problem didn’t start until more like 6-8 months ago, I’ve also read that SSRIs can permanently affect one’s sensitivity and lead to persistent problems with it, which I now fear that I have. The urologist said all they can do is re-prescribe me the SSRI, but I don’t really want to get back on them if they could have been a source of this problem to begin with.
does anyone else experience this level of sensitivity in their recovery? Is this all in my head and I just need to work on relaxing? I’m definitely stressed so that’s very possible, but it’s hard to feel like there’s a solution when my stamina is literally at 0.