I've kept the same username, so won't revisit the detail of my past, which can be found in my 1st journal (I'll post a link to it when I find it).
To summarise, I'm over 50, and have history stretching back 4 decades of porn addiction.
It was at the start of 2020 when I made a meanful attempt at overcoming the addiction, and managed a streak of 90 days of no porn ... the "magic number" ???
My relationship with my wife had improved, although my sex drive is greater than her's, and "moments of intimacy" where sporadic and far between ... so thinking I was "cured" I started to endulge in some MO, (but no 'P').
... and then it all went wrong!
The COVID pandemic unexpectedly came along ... and since then, so have other unrelated sources of increased stress and anxiety. The "old habit" was triggered.
There's no such thing as "I'll treat myself just once"! Very quickly the situation got out of control.
I wasn't "cured"! The saying "old habits die hard" couldn't be truer.
I can't blame the Covid pandemic! I can't blame my wife! I can only blame myself for not dealing with what was going on around me, without having to revert back to porn.
I'm now day 47 into this reboot. I've had one episode of p-sub, a few weeks ago ... but nothing since ... until now.
It's now 03:30 in the morning ... I'm wide awake ... one side of my brain is crying out for a dopamine rush, whilst the other side is wrestling the urge.
This is the first real test of this reboot :O
To summarise, I'm over 50, and have history stretching back 4 decades of porn addiction.
It was at the start of 2020 when I made a meanful attempt at overcoming the addiction, and managed a streak of 90 days of no porn ... the "magic number" ???
My relationship with my wife had improved, although my sex drive is greater than her's, and "moments of intimacy" where sporadic and far between ... so thinking I was "cured" I started to endulge in some MO, (but no 'P').
... and then it all went wrong!
The COVID pandemic unexpectedly came along ... and since then, so have other unrelated sources of increased stress and anxiety. The "old habit" was triggered.
There's no such thing as "I'll treat myself just once"! Very quickly the situation got out of control.
I wasn't "cured"! The saying "old habits die hard" couldn't be truer.
I can't blame the Covid pandemic! I can't blame my wife! I can only blame myself for not dealing with what was going on around me, without having to revert back to porn.
I'm now day 47 into this reboot. I've had one episode of p-sub, a few weeks ago ... but nothing since ... until now.
It's now 03:30 in the morning ... I'm wide awake ... one side of my brain is crying out for a dopamine rush, whilst the other side is wrestling the urge.
This is the first real test of this reboot :O