Porn stories
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Onmyway19
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I'm no expert, but from my experience, that's a slippery slope. Stories are one of the things that started my last relapse. I thought there'd be no harm in using my own imagination, but within a couple days I was pmo like I'd never stopped. Stay strong and resist that urge. Go workout, clean, meditation. Anything but giving into that demon that says " it's OK, you'll be fine if you only do stories" or whatever thing that your addiction tries to rationalize. It's about replacing bad habits with good ones. Focus on building positive actions, not trying to find ways to continue old ones. Hope this helps.
Artemus
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What you are describing is what's called a, "P-sub" or "Porn substitute". P-sub's can be anything from R rated movies with simulated scenes and nudity, to hardcore rap music, to erotic literature or even your own fantasies. Anything that excites you in a sexual way should be off limits, IF you actually want to successfully reboot. Its all about getting your brain back to a place in time before you became sexually active. Oggling the opposite sex is another no-no. Nobody likes zero stimulation, we are sexual beings, but modern society has corrupted the natural intended way we were intended to interact intimately and reduced it to a handshake or spectator sport in effect. Do the HARD-90, its worth the pain and struggle, anything less than that won't give you a clean reboot. The benefits also go far beyond the bedroom too, your life will change for the better. Take control of your body and your mind, don't let yourself be ruled by poor impulse control anymore.
GrateClips
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it's still trying to achieve the same effect - artificially stimulating you for a fix. maybe not as damaging as visual porn or videos but as others have said provides a slippery slope
i wouldn't do it if it were me