20 Something Reboot

Day 26 - Still briefly getting urges for P! It's scary how deep-rooted it is. Luckily, the urges are much weaker nowadays!
Day 233 no porn
Day 26 no MO
To some extent, the porn urges I think may just be urges for sex, and porn is a substitutes we've trained ourselves to. I still get some porn urges / flashbacks but like you said, they're way weaker. Succumbing now would be way worse than succumbing on Day 5 because of the fact that the urges are so much weaker & our willpowers are so much stronger. It's only up from here bro!
 

SmokenMirrors

Well-Known Member
To some extent, the porn urges I think may just be urges for sex, and porn is a substitutes we've trained ourselves to. I still get some porn urges / flashbacks but like you said, they're way weaker. Succumbing now would be way worse than succumbing on Day 5 because of the fact that the urges are so much weaker & our willpowers are so much stronger. It's only up from here bro!
I think you're right! Need to get my end away! :ROFLMAO:
 

SmokenMirrors

Well-Known Member
Day 28 - I'm loving how I am with no porn and no MO! I can feel the testosterone surging through my body and I'm noticing women checking me out now (I'm not sure if I've just never noticed or if the ladies can sense my masculine presence or something. Has anyone got any theories on this). I'd be lying if I said I didnt miss MO. Hell, sometimes I miss porn still! I'm definitely the best version of myself when I'm not O'ing, I'm hoping that sex doesn't set me back (when I finally do get laid again!)
Day 235 no porn
Day 28 no MO
 

Blondie

Respected Member
Hey @SmokenMirrors , so happy to hear of your successes! 👍 👍

I definitely know what you're talking about here, and others have mentioned this phenomenon as well. I think it's two things.

Firstly, when we're not wankers, we are just different people, and that confidence comes off to the women around us. And since women love men who are confident, that's just a win win situation all around.

Secondly, and as you just mentioned, when you're not whacking it ever 24/7, you have all that extra testosterone running through you veins, thus, you walk around like you have a purpose in life. Women love men who have better things to do than just trying to receive female attention, thus, they give you attention! It's a beautiful law of the universe! :cool:

One of the biggest problems I have with porn, besides everything we talk about here on a daily basis, is how it makes us men into simps for women. We literally train ourselves to give out free attention to women on Instagram, porn, etc., who will never have sex with us, and thereby waste our time in return, which is our greatest resource on this earth. Porn trains our minds to do this, and then unfortunately, this bad habit bleeds out into the real world, where us men give out attention to women all day long, hoping to get back any scraps of affection along the way, like beggars in the street.🤦‍♂️ Last time I checked, there is nothing more repulsive to a woman than a man begging for her attention, it's like the plague to them, and they rightly run away!

Long story short, when you have better things to do then just begging for attention, women take notice of you, and well, that's a great thing my man!

Best to you


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SmokenMirrors

Well-Known Member
Hey @SmokenMirrors , so happy to hear of your successes! 👍 👍

I definitely know what you're talking about here, and others have mentioned this phenomenon as well. I think it's two things.

Firstly, when we're not wankers, we are just different people, and that confidence comes off to the women around us. And since women love men who are confident, that's just a win win situation all around.

Secondly, and as you just mentioned, when you're not whacking it ever 24/7, you have all that extra testosterone running through you veins, thus, you walk around like you have a purpose in life. Women love men who have better things to do than just trying to receive female attention, thus, they give you attention! It's a beautiful law of the universe! :cool:

One of the biggest problems I have with porn, besides everything we talk about here on a daily basis, is how it makes us men into simps for women. We literally train ourselves to give out free attention to women on Instagram, porn, etc., who will never have sex with us, and thereby waste our time in return, which is our greatest resource on this earth. Porn trains our minds to do this, and then unfortunately, this bad habit bleeds out into the real world, where us men give out attention to women all day long, hoping to get back any scraps of affection along the way, like beggars in the street.🤦‍♂️ Last time I checked, there is nothing more repulsive to a woman than a man begging for her attention, it's like the plague to them, and they rightly run away!

Long story short, when you have better things to do then just begging for attention, women take notice of you, and well, that's a great thing my man!

Best to you


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I think you're correct! Also that picture killed me hahaha! :ROFLMAO: It's crazy how we work on irony and paradoxes. Want a woman? Can't get one. Stop focussing on women? You'll attract them. Who's idea was this!

Day 236 no porn
Day 29 no MO
 

swimmer97

Member
Hey @SmokenMirrors , so happy to hear of your successes! 👍 👍

I definitely know what you're talking about here, and others have mentioned this phenomenon as well. I think it's two things.

Firstly, when we're not wankers, we are just different people, and that confidence comes off to the women around us. And since women love men who are confident, that's just a win win situation all around.

Secondly, and as you just mentioned, when you're not whacking it ever 24/7, you have all that extra testosterone running through you veins, thus, you walk around like you have a purpose in life. Women love men who have better things to do than just trying to receive female attention, thus, they give you attention! It's a beautiful law of the universe! :cool:

One of the biggest problems I have with porn, besides everything we talk about here on a daily basis, is how it makes us men into simps for women. We literally train ourselves to give out free attention to women on Instagram, porn, etc., who will never have sex with us, and thereby waste our time in return, which is our greatest resource on this earth. Porn trains our minds to do this, and then unfortunately, this bad habit bleeds out into the real world, where us men give out attention to women all day long, hoping to get back any scraps of affection along the way, like beggars in the street.🤦‍♂️ Last time I checked, there is nothing more repulsive to a woman than a man begging for her attention, it's like the plague to them, and they rightly run away!

Long story short, when you have better things to do then just begging for attention, women take notice of you, and well, that's a great thing my man!

Best to you


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what a great post. 100% agree.

and GZ on the + in manliness @SmokenMirrors. I know exactly what you are talking about.
 
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