A poem for a life change

Blondie

Well-Known Member
Anyone can refrain from porn for 90 days,
all it takes is resolve and a little action.
But to accept life on its own terms for the rest of one's days,
takes everything you have, with no strong reactions.
It requires a new paradigm shift, a new way of thinking,
because real life is no five hour dopamine high in the making!
They say absence makes the heart grow stronger,
but abstinence from porn often makes the brain scream "No longer!"
This is why it's incumbent on us to completely change our lives,
so that we no longer hear porn's knocking, nor realize it even survives.
To quit is a great thing, but to completely change one's life, is even more desirable,
because at the end of the day, we must know, deep in our hearts, that a new life is acquirable.

Addendum: I'm not downplaying anyone trying to achieve 90 days porn free. This is just my perspective coming from a place where 90 days porn free is not hard to achieve anymore. Cheers!
 
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WestCoast

Member
Anyone can refrain from porn for 90 days,
all it takes is resolve and a little action.
But to accept life on its own terms for the rest of one's days,
takes everything you have, with no strong reactions.
It requires a new paradigm shift, a new way of thinking,
because real life is no five hour dopamine high in the making!
They say absence makes the heart grow stronger,
but abstinence from porn often makes the brain scream "No longer!"
This is why it's incumbent on us to completely change our lives,
so that we no longer hear porn's knocking, nor realize, it even survives.
To quit is a great thing, but to completely change one's life, is even more desirable,
because at the end of the day, we must know, deep in our hearts, that a new life is acquirable.

Addendum: I'm not downplaying anyone trying to achieve 90 days porn free. This is just my perspective coming from a place where 90 days porn free is not hard to achieve anymore. Cheers!
Your poem is like right there on google, bro. That's so cool! 💪💪💪
 

Onmyway19

Active Member
Thank you for that Blondie. You've done great things for this entire community, by just showing up and being you. It's inspiring to all of us to see you make the progress you've made, and continue to come here everyday and support others.

I certainly appreciate your occasional poems, and constant support, and honesty with yourself and others. Great work my friend.
 
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