My journey to becoming a Better Me

Hi Quick question
Since yesterday I have been getting that feeling that you get during edging like I'm about to cum and I'm really horny and keep getting erections on just the thought of sex but my erections are not as hard as before now and since yesterday semen leakage is also back

Is it normal during Reboot I mean getting extremely horny and not getting 100 percent erection
 
And I have also noticed that I'm getting sex dreams but right before ejaculated I woke up suddenly and never get to ejaculate in my dreams is it also normal ?
 

Tryinghere

Active Member
And I have also noticed that I'm getting sex dreams but right before ejaculated I woke up suddenly and never get to ejaculate in my dreams is it also normal ?
I've never ejaculated in a dream. I always wake up right before. The other stuff about being super horny but not 100% hard....I didn't personally experience that, but I would imagine it's probably normal
 
Update:
It's been 70 days PMO free. I have seen some improvements but they go away I mean during these 70 days I had days where I had labido like I got super horny and stuff but it these days only lasted for short time like 3 to 4 days and then back to flatline.

I will talk about my recent changes I felt a week ago a started feeling horny again It wasn't my full labido but something was definitely there and I was really happy. I was able to get erection by just thinking about sex the erection was almost 90% but as I used my pelvic floor muscles like when you try to bop your penis my erections used to get 100%.

Last night I was scrolling on YouTube I saw a video about ending flatline quick and one thing led to another I moved to a video about organic ED and a Doctor talking about surgery and implants and it gave a small panic attack and now I'm back in flatline and a dead dick phase.

Questions:

Why am I keep getting back into flatline without any orgasms?

Can anxiety attack throw me back into flatline?

Why do I get full erection when I bop my penis like when I contract my keegle muscles?

will there be a time again in my life where I don't have to worry about my flatline ?
 

Tryinghere

Active Member
Update:
It's been 70 days PMO free. I have seen some improvements but they go away I mean during these 70 days I had days where I had labido like I got super horny and stuff but it these days only lasted for short time like 3 to 4 days and then back to flatline.

I will talk about my recent changes I felt a week ago a started feeling horny again It wasn't my full labido but something was definitely there and I was really happy. I was able to get erection by just thinking about sex the erection was almost 90% but as I used my pelvic floor muscles like when you try to bop your penis my erections used to get 100%.

Last night I was scrolling on YouTube I saw a video about ending flatline quick and one thing led to another I moved to a video about organic ED and a Doctor talking about surgery and implants and it gave a small panic attack and now I'm back in flatline and a dead dick phase.

Questions:

Why am I keep getting back into flatline without any orgasms?

Can anxiety attack throw me back into flatline?

Why do I get full erection when I bop my penis like when I contract my keegle muscles?

will there be a time again in my life where I don't have to worry about my flatline ?
I can only speak to my own experience here but when I was at day 70, I’d say I was in the worst of my flatlining stage. I felt like absolute shit with a dead shriveled dick from around day 40-100. Anxiety definitely won’t help speed things along. Do your best to fill your time with fulfilling things. For me it was nutrition, exercising with my spouse, and meditation. The more your mind is focused on fulfilling, healthy things, the faster you’ll balance out.

Trust me. You’re smack dab right in the middle of the shitstorm right now. It doesn’t last forever. The only way to find out for sure though is to keep going.
 
I can only speak to my own experience here but when I was at day 70, I’d say I was in the worst of my flatlining stage. I felt like absolute shit with a dead shriveled dick from around day 40-100. Anxiety definitely won’t help speed things along. Do your best to fill your time with fulfilling things. For me it was nutrition, exercising with my spouse, and meditation. The more your mind is focused on fulfilling, healthy things, the faster you’ll balance out.

Trust me. You’re smack dab right in the middle of the shitstorm right now. It doesn’t last forever. The only way to find out for sure though is to keep going.
Thanks alot man you're always a great help
 

Oscar40

Active Member
will there be a time again in my life where I don't have to worry about my flatline ?


Hi, friend. I hope you are very well. I'm glad you're much better as I see.

I want to clarify something for you: Personally, I would advise you not to pay attention to this vague concept of "flatline" There are those who say they have been in a flatline for 10 years and there are those who say that it only lasted 3 months.

Personally, I don't believe in flat lines. All human beings have fluctuations in their libido and that is very normal.

I often discuss the topic with people who have no problems with porn and also report fluctuations in their libido, which shows that the "flatline" issue, at least in my view, is highly speculative.

I've tried rebooting for 10 years thousands of times, I've done hundreds of streaks on hard mode and never in any of them have I experienced a flatline.

Really really if the Flatline is a real thing, I´ll wish I could be flatlined, I really wish I could be flatlined because it's a state that can allow you to focus much more on things other than relationships and sex.
 
Hi, friend. I hope you are very well. I'm glad you're much better as I see.

I want to clarify something for you: Personally, I would advise you not to pay attention to this vague concept of "flatline" There are those who say they have been in a flatline for 10 years and there are those who say that it only lasted 3 months.

Personally, I don't believe in flat lines. All human beings have fluctuations in their libido and that is very normal.

I often discuss the topic with people who have no problems with porn and also report fluctuations in their libido, which shows that the "flatline" issue, at least in my view, is highly speculative.

I've tried rebooting for 10 years thousands of times, I've done hundreds of streaks on hard mode and never in any of them have I experienced a flatline.

Really really if the Flatline is a real thing, I´ll wish I could be flatlined, I really wish I could be flatlined because it's a state that can allow you to focus much more on things other than relationships and sex.
If you have never been in an flatline than you're really lucky man and don't wish it upon yourself it's not just the loss of labido its much more than that it makes you feel like less of man or broken it gives depression and hopelessness and most of the time during flatline you just feel like lonely and f***ed up it's really not a good thing for sure
 

Tryinghere

Active Member
If you have never been in an flatline than you're really lucky man and don't wish it upon yourself it's not just the loss of labido its much more than that it makes you feel like less of man or broken it gives depression and hopelessness and most of the time during flatline you just feel like lonely and f***ed up it's really not a good thing for sure
This.
 

Oscar40

Active Member
@New_Rebooter

Yes my friend. I have never experienced that. Maybe that's why I started PMO really late in life: at 23 years old it was my first PMO in my life. Perhaps flat lines are suffered by those who began as children or in the period of brain formation, that is, in adolescence.
 

Michael89

Member
@New_Rebooter

Yes my friend. I have never experienced that. Maybe that's why I started PMO really late in life: at 23 years old it was my first PMO in my life. Perhaps flat lines are suffered by those who began as children or in the period of brain formation, that is, in adolescence.
That’s me as well. I started PMO at 24. Im 32 now.
 
Update:
It's 93 days PMO free Hardmode without any orgasms didn't relapsed, didn't looked at the P although I did ejaculated 1 time during sleeping without any weird dream or I guess I just don't remember it lol.
Semen leakage is gone thankfully
Anxiety and depression is undercontrol not fully cured though.
I have been getting decent Morning Wood
I do get random erections now only 1 or 2 times a week 50 to 70 percent hard.

Other than that same old same old don't have any labido or desire or arousal what ever people call it I mean I just don't get horny anymore.

I have not checked if I can get erection using my hand and I don't want to check it what's the point of checking 🙃
I tried thinking about sex to get an Erection couldn't even think about sex 😅 I guess it's because of labido issue but not sure

I have stopped expecting anything from my life 🙃 it kind of feels better to live without expectations not scared of living my life alone anymore I have lived 25 years without anyone I can live another 25.

Let's see where life takes me 🙂 Good Luck to you all.

I will post again if there is any sign of recovery or anything new comes up.
 
Also I changed the thread title from " Need Help im Panicking out" to "My journey to becoming a better me" old title was just so negative.
 

Oscar40

Active Member
Other than that same old same old don't have any labido or desire or arousal what ever people call it I mean I just don't get horny anymore.


Calm. Its normal. I don't feel that way either and that doesn't mean I have a problem.

At some point you will meet or see someone who makes you feel that way. It is normal in any human being. We don't have to be feeling libido all day and every day. Who said we have to be hot all the time? absolutely. It is very normal not to feel libido most of the time, even if we are young.
 

Wonder

Member
Update:
It's 93 days PMO free Hardmode without any orgasms didn't relapsed, didn't looked at the P although I did ejaculated 1 time during sleeping without any weird dream or I guess I just don't remember it lol.
Semen leakage is gone thankfully
Anxiety and depression is undercontrol not fully cured though.
I have been getting decent Morning Wood
I do get random erections now only 1 or 2 times a week 50 to 70 percent hard.

Other than that same old same old don't have any labido or desire or arousal what ever people call it I mean I just don't get horny anymore.

I have not checked if I can get erection using my hand and I don't want to check it what's the point of checking 🙃
I tried thinking about sex to get an Erection couldn't even think about sex 😅 I guess it's because of labido issue but not sure

I have stopped expecting anything from my life 🙃 it kind of feels better to live without expectations not scared of living my life alone anymore I have lived 25 years without anyone I can live another 25.

Let's see where life takes me 🙂 Good Luck to you all.

I will post again if there is any sign of recovery or anything new comes up.
I have exactly same situation...
 
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