So I’d say your not alone in feeling inadequate, I too went through this whole thing. If you could find a photo for the definition of average penis you’d probably find mine lol, but when I was heavy in porn use I was convinced it was worthless to the point where I’d to my wife to see if she felt uninspired by it as well. Of course she never took the bait and in my life I’ve never heard a negative comment about my size. Since I’ve stopped porn use, it took a little time but I’ve come to terms with my guy down there and I’m not so bummed out about him. Porn certainly has a way of giving any who view it some type of body dysmorphia. Fun fact I’ve seen a video where a guy goes around with a 6” ruler asking women to guess how long it was….almost all of them over estimated it’s length by several inches. This led me to conclusions, option A women aren’t a good judge if size, or option B, men have lied about 6” length being 7 or 8 inches to women for so long they have been duped into believing it lololol.ok, ok….so I have issues.
Here’s how good and bad those issues are: good = just feel more manly. Always thought my dick was normal or fractionally shorter than normal, and now I don’t. I read a study that said 83% of men think their penis is average or smaller than average in length and girth. Why do we do that? If it’s because we compare to the huge cocks in porn films, then we’re being stupid. I just think we have issues most of us. I could be alone on this [shrug] and revealing my own insecurities Anyway back to my cock. I will not give dimensions suffice it to say that it very slightly gets in the way these days.
bad = errr…..not sure if there is a bad. No idea if my wife and I do the Sensate focus intimacy program (look it up) , she may say WTF have you done there….wow I’ll have me some salami please. Or she may not say a word. If my cock is bigger will it hurt my wife? All interesting first world problems to have.
much love from the desk of UK’s fast growing knob. I think I shall magically make it thicker by thinking about Mrs Geebs’ huge tits - done it. Took 20 secs.
that being said, I believe when women say size doesn’t matter, it’s more about the emotional connection between her and her mate. Much that I think men aren’t so concerned with breast size, I care more about the connection with my wife than I do the size of her jugs. I’m sure there a demographic both men and women where size is a dictating factor as to staying with someone or not but it’s a small sampling I’m sure.
I think if she saw your new found manhood she might think who is this stranger and what has he done with Mr Geebs! Joking aside I’m sure she’s still safe guarding her heart. I think you’ll return to the promise land eventually and when you do it will be like the explorers finding unexplored land, you’ll be in awe of natures beauty and be fascinated by the native fauna!I wonder if Mrs GBS is fighting the urge to rip my clothes off but she stops herself by saying - don’t be a fool
As always, your front page reading is the highlight of my mornings, thanks for being honest and real with all of us!