GBS
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447. Thanks @Androg
Another thing my wife said the other day has rather stuck with me but gives perspective as to where she is in her head. I asked her if she thought the sex we had was intimate and connected. She said not really for many years. Personally I think this is revisionist because I can recall her talking about it sometimes and what she was saying wasn’t indicative of it not being nice.
Also she said she felt ashamed and guilty for all the times we did it. Painful.
This is the reality of what finding out about porn does to a woman. It is cutting deep. So 15 months is all very well, but we have a long way to go.
Another thing my wife said the other day has rather stuck with me but gives perspective as to where she is in her head. I asked her if she thought the sex we had was intimate and connected. She said not really for many years. Personally I think this is revisionist because I can recall her talking about it sometimes and what she was saying wasn’t indicative of it not being nice.
Also she said she felt ashamed and guilty for all the times we did it. Painful.
This is the reality of what finding out about porn does to a woman. It is cutting deep. So 15 months is all very well, but we have a long way to go.