Another story - probably the same as everyone else
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GBS
Respected Member
1,122 days sober
4 days no MO
If you asked me how things are with the wife, I would say they’re good but nothing’s happening so it gets relentless this waiting. Albeit we have been unbelievably busy, so that would probably be offered as an excuse. It wouldn’t be an excuse but it would be said nonetheless.
4 days no MO
If you asked me how things are with the wife, I would say they’re good but nothing’s happening so it gets relentless this waiting. Albeit we have been unbelievably busy, so that would probably be offered as an excuse. It wouldn’t be an excuse but it would be said nonetheless.
GBS
Respected Member
1,134 days sober
16 days no MO
Things are good at home but with children returned from university it does make intimacy trickier (my wife won’t when they’re at home), Sometimes this frustrates me to the point where I want to scream. I don’t scream. I internalise my despair. I have been doing this for long time. It’s not a “poor me” situation, it’s the reality. I could say - why hasn’t she got over it by now - but she hasn’t, or not completely, so I just allow the internalising to be the coping. Keep going fellows, I most certainly will.
16 days no MO
Things are good at home but with children returned from university it does make intimacy trickier (my wife won’t when they’re at home), Sometimes this frustrates me to the point where I want to scream. I don’t scream. I internalise my despair. I have been doing this for long time. It’s not a “poor me” situation, it’s the reality. I could say - why hasn’t she got over it by now - but she hasn’t, or not completely, so I just allow the internalising to be the coping. Keep going fellows, I most certainly will.
