Beautiful1973
Active Member
I'm interested Steely Balls.......I understand it being organic, but what happens when one doesn't do more. or doesn't want to do more?!?!?It’s organic and needs us both to be aware of generally doing more.
I understand how you feel, my ex husband, who I loved & adored started to slowly become less intimate with me, until one day it just stopped and he didn't touch me for 15 months.....not once.....I felt like a child starved of affection. One night I walked into the bedroom, he was lying in bed with his back to the door, as I approached, he raised his hand up behind his back in a 'STOP' action and said "Don't even think about it @Beautiful1973, because it's not happening", what he meant by that was don't try to initiate sex or intimacy. By the time he woke up and realised he had this beautiful, sexy wife, it was too late, I'd already left in my head, I resented him so much.......sadly it took me another 5 years to leave. Sorry I didn't mean to hijack your story or suggest you end your marriage, I just want you to understand, I know how you are feeling.
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