GBS
Respected Member
Hi pal @GrateClips
Your words are a comfort. I needed a tonic and you helped me there. I am a very different person actually from the one who started writing on here back in May. I probably wouldn’t be here were it not for this site. I am possibly about to list my new qualities but then this will turn into a validation exercise and whilst I obviously love the attention, I don’t need it fed. It just doesn’t add up though…..when I was a less good husband I was allowed to touch my wife and have some really quite dirty sex with her, and now I am a good man I can’t.
You asked if there were other things we could improve…..I think she would have said communication but ironically she’s stopped communicating, and doing things together which we are doing.
I personally think she’s just really struggling with the situation and the stress of expectation now we’re 8 months down the road. So I am truly sympathetic and need to give her all the time she needs. I can do that with my head held high. I am getting really close to being able to say that I have the porn problem under MY control. Not complacent, just know I am doing right.
244 days clean from the devil. My brain will not look like it did 8 months ago. I am so relieved I did this.
Your words are a comfort. I needed a tonic and you helped me there. I am a very different person actually from the one who started writing on here back in May. I probably wouldn’t be here were it not for this site. I am possibly about to list my new qualities but then this will turn into a validation exercise and whilst I obviously love the attention, I don’t need it fed. It just doesn’t add up though…..when I was a less good husband I was allowed to touch my wife and have some really quite dirty sex with her, and now I am a good man I can’t.
You asked if there were other things we could improve…..I think she would have said communication but ironically she’s stopped communicating, and doing things together which we are doing.
I personally think she’s just really struggling with the situation and the stress of expectation now we’re 8 months down the road. So I am truly sympathetic and need to give her all the time she needs. I can do that with my head held high. I am getting really close to being able to say that I have the porn problem under MY control. Not complacent, just know I am doing right.
244 days clean from the devil. My brain will not look like it did 8 months ago. I am so relieved I did this.