Jlied
Active Member
I like this a lot. Perhaps we’re just managing our urges better that we can adapt to our current climate. When I know that sex is in the table my libido is certainly there. But when I know our evenings are going to be busy or our schedules won’t align I don’t have urges for sex, I’m at peace knowing tonight it’s the night.Last month during Christmas break, my lady was out sick for most of it, and we hardly had sex, maybe once I think. Thus, I too didn't feel very horny during this time and was mostly okay with that. But, was this a flatline? Or since she wasn't in the mood maybe I wasn't in the mood? Who knows. I do think our sex drives should be like the seasons though, coming and going like the waves of the sea.
I also really like your 5 points, is that something you came up with on your own? I feel like everyone of them is an awesome goal to achieve. And I feel like even when you think you are there you can always achieve higher levels of those tenets