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Day 365 --With the conclusion of today, I've officially made it to the 1yr mark! So where am I relative to 1 year ago? I'm not where I want to be, but I'm way farther than where I was. When I started, I couldn't even MO to imagination to even porn star type girls. Now the MO's have been maybe not super consistent, but they are MO's to regular cute girls in the real world with normal sex positions. This is a huge step. Also I have had some great MO's to imagination with just regular sex in my head as well, it's just been periods of very good MO's followed by flatlines or periods of mediocre ones.
Officially starting no MO today (day 1 ongoing). I've been overdoing the MO's probably the past two weeks as well which hasn't helped and I feel the porn pathways need to weaken much more, so the best step from here is to stop the MO's for 90 days as promised.
What I'll instead do to fill the time and make myself the best possible version of myself over this 90 days:
1. Taking up the weight loss / lifting hard. I've been going easy / moderate on lifting for a while to avoid injuries but now I've been taking it slow 1-2x a week, I'm going to ramp that up to 3x. And going to do cardio another 2-3x days a week.
2. Diet. Going to make this much better as it's what's holding my weight loss goals back. Going to make the hard choices here
3. Reading. Lots and lots of reading of productive stuff including personal finance and self-improvement books. Going to really become my best self
This is what I'm planning on for the next 3 months of my life. Going to give 110% and look back on these 90 days knowing I made the absolute most of it as a human being. Let's move forward my friends
Officially starting no MO today (day 1 ongoing). I've been overdoing the MO's probably the past two weeks as well which hasn't helped and I feel the porn pathways need to weaken much more, so the best step from here is to stop the MO's for 90 days as promised.
What I'll instead do to fill the time and make myself the best possible version of myself over this 90 days:
1. Taking up the weight loss / lifting hard. I've been going easy / moderate on lifting for a while to avoid injuries but now I've been taking it slow 1-2x a week, I'm going to ramp that up to 3x. And going to do cardio another 2-3x days a week.
2. Diet. Going to make this much better as it's what's holding my weight loss goals back. Going to make the hard choices here
3. Reading. Lots and lots of reading of productive stuff including personal finance and self-improvement books. Going to really become my best self
This is what I'm planning on for the next 3 months of my life. Going to give 110% and look back on these 90 days knowing I made the absolute most of it as a human being. Let's move forward my friends