Been trying to quit for nearly 3 years, hoping this forum will help!

eourmenum

New Member
Hi, I'm a 19 year old male from the UK, currently at uni, I've been using porn since I was 12.
I started just looking at women online over the summer in 2015, but over the years I have developed a fetish for very large breasts. This has no doubt been caused by porn, so I'm hoping it will disappear, or at the very least subside as I recover.

In the summer of 2019 (age 16) I learned about nofap, and I thought it would be worth trying for its benefits. I managed it for a few weeks but fell back into a relapse. This cycle has pretty much continued up to now. At first I didn't think I was an addict but over time I have come to realise that I am. I have tried every approach I have come across: using trackers, avoiding trackers, blocking websites, easypeasymethod, and so on.

I have never had a girlfriend or experienced anything sexual with another person, but I'm not feeling too bad about that; I don't mind taking my time. I'm only a bit disappointed that I've missed out on something in my teenage years. I do think that having a porn addiction has hindered my social skills, but I have got a lot better over the last few years. I'm hoping that recovery will help me get rid of my remaining social anxiety.

The one thing I have never done is spoke about my difficulties with anyone. I'm hoping that using this forum to message others will provide me with the drive I need to end this once and for all. I think I will spend some time re-reading easypeasymethod as it does seem like a valuable document worth reading again.

I'd love to know how I can best use this forum to finally end my addiction, what worked for you? I'd also love to know if you have any maybe unconventional / little talked about techniques or approaches? I think having a new perspective would really help me right now.

I'm gonna try to update this every day with progress, and hopefully join in some discussion!
 

TryingHarder

Well-Known Member
Welcome, eourmenum. You're smart and brave to share this. It's great that you're recognizing the porn addiction now and taking steps to conquer it when you're still young. (I'm over 50, and this addiction has been a part of my life for 25 years.) I think my advice would be to read as many posts on the forum as possible to realize that you're not alone, keep on sharing your thoughts, and gain knowledge from what others have gone through.
 
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