Honoring the Ultimatum

Aeodh Dan

Member
day 99 monk mode for me....
I don't envy you having to deal with the wife, mine left finally, which has been a huge boost to my recovery.
It's so nice to see her only occasionally...we don't fight anymore, we talk about our grown up children and their lives/families etc. and keep it civil
Monk mode is so much more doable in my opinion...I've tried the no porn/masturbation while living with her in the past and after 90 days went right back, because of the stress in the relationship.
My penis finally has a needed break, that poor thing! It seems so much healthier and happier now.
And the semen production factory? Shut down...must have went to China, I heard they need more kids there.
I have chronic back problems, age 52, it sucks, but I would rather live with a bad back than with porn addiction. Anyways, you may want to consider monk mode; you can still be physically intimate with your wife without a hard on. Sounds weird, but sex isn't all about fucking and cumming...
Good luck on your journey!
 

Phineas 808

Respected Member
Gongrats on the 90, Tuneshmith! I wish you could celebrate it (as you ought to) without these other (important) considerations. It's difficult to change at our age (?), but I'm willing to- but it doesn't always work out that way... :cautious:
 
day 99 monk mode for me....
I don't envy you having to deal with the wife, mine left finally, which has been a huge boost to my recovery.
It's so nice to see her only occasionally...we don't fight anymore, we talk about our grown up children and their lives/families etc. and keep it civil
Monk mode is so much more doable in my opinion...I've tried the no porn/masturbation while living with her in the past and after 90 days went right back, because of the stress in the relationship.
My penis finally has a needed break, that poor thing! It seems so much healthier and happier now.
And the semen production factory? Shut down...must have went to China, I heard they need more kids there.
I have chronic back problems, age 52, it sucks, but I would rather live with a bad back than with porn addiction. Anyways, you may want to consider monk mode; you can still be physically intimate with your wife without a hard on. Sounds weird, but sex isn't all about fucking and cumming...
Good luck on your journey!
Duck butter factory moved to China.. LMAO !!! I too am disabled due to back/neck problems, so I feel you there Bro. And I agree, the back pain is easier to deal with than the PA and all the crap that ensues behind it. I do still have relations with my wife sans boner, I refer to it as climbing Brokedick Mountain. I can even still ejaculate, although sometimes I shoot dust.. I figure my boys don't swim anymore, tired little bastards just lay around the pool looking at the eggs and reminiscing about the days of virility past... LOL... I actually woke up with a SEMIpisshard the other day, scared the hell outta me because I ain't seen one of those since Trump was in office. And it hurt. But I was still glad to see it. Glad to hear you dealt with separation from your spousal unit so well. As much as I bitch about my lady fair, I really don't know what I would do without her.
 

joepanic

Well-Known Member
Tunesmith you are one funny guy But I think that is needed here sometimes Yes you can certainly take care of your "lady fair" without the use of your trouser snake Use the less talk more action mode with your mouth. it certainly works with my wife and I have no issues with my snake. I think most of us spend out marriages trying to figure our wives out, Its funny mine was easy to figure out than we went and got married. And their is no manual to the married woman..

Cheers Hope she enjoys her present tonight

Post often it helps me it helps you
 
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