Premature ejaculating

Moola 720

New Member
I am 3 weeks into my nofap journey and today my girlfriend touched my shaft and I ejaculated immediately. Is this part of the journey
 

Oscar40

Active Member
I am 3 weeks into my nofap journey and today my girlfriend touched my shaft and I ejaculated immediately. Is this part of the journey


Hi,

Its very Normal. 3 weeks nofap and You ejaculated immediatelly? Maybe you are very Young or very Teen

Are you very Youn?

How Old are you ?


I am 40 years Old.
 

Oscar40

Active Member
I am 22 years old, do you think that could be the problem?


Hello.

First of all, don't call it a "problem" because that's not really a problem.

Second: Rapid ejaculation is very normal during the first sexual experiences. I also experienced it when I was your age.

As time goes by you will learn to control it. In fact, masturbation leads to the opposite: masturbation helps sexual performance, however, the problem is that if masturbation goes beyond the normal line and becomes excessive, it will end up leaving you unresponsive sexual. This is why my advice is to handle the topic of masturbation in moderation.

If you don't masturbate at all = Premature Ejaculation.

If you masturbate excessively = Sexual unresponsiveness, PIED if with Porn or low libido, even if you masturbate excessively without porn.


Final Tip: Moderation is the key.
 
Hello.

First of all, don't call it a "problem" because that's not really a problem.

Second: Rapid ejaculation is very normal during the first sexual experiences. I also experienced it when I was your age.

As time goes by you will learn to control it. In fact, masturbation leads to the opposite: masturbation helps sexual performance, however, the problem is that if masturbation goes beyond the normal line and becomes excessive, it will end up leaving you unresponsive sexual. This is why my advice is to handle the topic of masturbation in moderation.

If you don't masturbate at all = Premature Ejaculation.

If you masturbate excessively = Sexual unresponsiveness, PIED if with Porn or low libido, even if you masturbate excessively without porn.


Final Tip: Moderation is the key.
I really like your answers, you are helping alot of guys on the forum which is really great, you answers are really realistic and straight to the point
Alot of us on this forum we are guilty of seeing everything as a problem even if it's not ( I think it comes with the guilt that we have broken ourselves or the hopelessness we feel during this journey) keep doing Good brother 👍
 

Oscar40

Active Member
I really like your answers, you are helping alot of guys on the forum which is really great, you answers are really realistic and straight to the point
Alot of us on this forum we are guilty of seeing everything as a problem even if it's not ( I think it comes with the guilt that we have broken ourselves or the hopelessness we feel during this journey) keep doing Good brother 👍

Thanks.

I was lucky enough to grow up in a world without internet and of course: without porn. The first time I had contact with pornography was when I was 23 years old. He was practically an adult. I never used porn or ever masturbated in my teens. When I first masturbated, I was 20 years old and I did it of course with nothing visual in front of my eyes. At that time there was no internet here in my country.

These reasons give me the security that due to my experience and my history, I consider myself a suitable person to advise what is normal and what is not normal in sexuality, libido, erections, etc..

I am currently 40 years old and have had several sexual partners in my life. I had impotence from using a lot of porn (from my 23 years to my 38 years), but now I am recovered.
 
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