Beginner

I am 25 years old.I started developing PIED symptoms from past month. I have never had ED issues before.But last 3 intercourses with my gf had been disappointing. I could nt get hard easily or fail to maintain the erection during sex. I loose my erection during putting a condom or changing position.It is frustrating and i started blaming my gf fr it Later realised it was me who was at fault. I had abused Porn fr many years nw almost regularly.I cant get full hard erection anymore and my performance has reduced to greater extent, i reach climax early with half erection. It is bothering me a lot and taking toll on my daily life. What if i have lost my libido forevr.

How should i over come this,do i need to totally stop having sex wid gf or only porn? How should i proceed? Pls help ...anyone who had overcome or is in process of doing so. Thank u
 

Onmyway19

Active Member
Stop watching Porn and using porn substitutes. Social media, reddit, anything artificial to stimulate yourself. Everything will go back to normal, and start appreciating what you have, your gf, instead of lusting after pixels. Your attraction will return. I promise
 
Thanks mate...today is day 2..long way to go
Stop watching Porn and using porn substitutes. Social media, reddit, anything artificial to stimulate yourself. Everything will go back to normal, and start appreciating what you have, your gf, instead of lusting after pixels. Your attraction will return. I promise
 

Oscar40

Member
How should i over come this,do i need to totally stop having sex wid gf or only porn? How should i proceed? Pls help ...anyone who had overcome or is in process of doing so. Thank u
Look: to start. I am 40 years old. I have abused porn for YEARS AND YEARS (since I was your age: 25). I have done thousands, hundreds of reboots, yet my libido always returns before 90 days. This being the case, according to my personal experience, the only thing I advise you is the following: DO NOT WORRY.

Libido is not lost "forever" as you incorrectly believe. I am evidence of that.


Steps to follow:

Stop using porn and stop masturbating.

Get plenty of rest, including not having sex.

Over time, you will experience your libido return
 

Oscar40

Member
What if i have lost my libido forevr.


Everyone who comes here as a beginner has this same absurd fear.

I remember when I did my first reboots. I have done about 200 reboots, and my libido always comes back, even before 90 days.

Thinking that your libido will be gone forever is just as absurd as thinking that your appetite or need for food will be gone forever, or that you will never be able to fall asleep again in your life.
 
Thanks guys...but i already failed tdy as i Masturbated over video call with my gf...bt i was hard almost 70%..had pretty decent orgasm ... Gonna put total stop to masturbation hereby ... I will consider today as day 1...sorry nd thnx ..
 

Oscar40

Member
Think you're sending out the wrong message here, Oscar. Many of us are trying our best to do ONE reboot and put our porn addictions behind us

At my age (40) I think that extremes in life confuse the human being. In my way of seeing things, moderation is the key to being happy. At least it has worked for me.

However, this is my very personal opinion. Don't follow my example. If you think getting away from that completely will make you happy, then go ahead. I support you.
 
Fckk...tdy i was high as fck..nd i had no self cntrl..i lost to the urge..nd masturbated ...😔😔 .why.... Nt as easy as i thought....bt ya..tdy is day 1 fr me...need to cntrol alcohol as well i guess ..
 

Oscar40

Member
Fckk...tdy i was high as fck..nd i had no self cntrl..i lost to the urge..nd masturbated ...😔😔 .why.... Nt as easy as i thought....bt ya..tdy is day 1 fr me...need to cntrol alcohol as well i guess ..

In this case, you did something much more harmful than masturbating, and that was taking drugs and consuming alcohol.

Alcohol and drugs are very harmful, while masturbation is not.
 

Oscar40

Member
was high on alcohol

Okay. However, alcohol is much more harmful than masturbation. Please note that. Masturbation after all in most cases is a healthy behavior (as long as it is handled in moderation, like everything in life).

Alcohol, if used only at Christmas and during special times, is a healthy habit too. Unless you use alcohol without moderation.

In fact, the same porn if used in moderation (eg once a year) would not be a problem for anyone.

Unfortunately people couldn't handle moderation and that's why they are here on this virtual site trying to find tips and advice from strangers on the web.
 
Top