Hello
@chap . You’re doing so well. I know you’re way younger than I am so the no MO thing is probably that much harder, but in the end it’s just the brain sending messages. There are numerous articles on the net about how masturbation is completely normal and healthy on the one hand, and then you can read how abstinence leads to paradise. So who’s right?
For me and I think most people on here, masturbation became unhealthy with it being accompanied by porn and obsessive. Alcohol is basically a wonderful thing if had in moderation but some people can’t moderate their intake. They, the alcoholics, don’t have any way of keeping a lid on their intake. If you’re not an alcoholic (I’m not) you possibly don’t understand why alcoholics can’t use some control and just enjoy a nice glass of wine. I am not sure if I can analogise with masturbation, but it’s possibly the same. Certainly we obsessive wankers can’t moderate, but also we probably aren’t so sure that there’s many out there who can. And anyway, were we put on this earth to have a solo sex life or were we given partners to enjoy sex with? Rhetorical obviously. So I think not masturbating is the right way to go because it’s almost impossible to do in moderation and not what we’re on this planet for.
Sorry for spouting on your string, just thought I would let you know you’re a hero, and why.
