Quitting porn to become a REAL MAN.

Ren

Ren

Member
Someone sent this in another community I participate, will put this here as a reminder

"it is ok to be weak, it is ok to fail, it is ok to break down and fall, but you have to stand up again, and when your down it is ok to ask for help. when you wanna grow muscles it takes time, you cant be bodybuilder in one week or two, it takes years of regular hard training. nofap is kinda the same, you train the muscle of self-control and if you keep training it, one day you can do it, because you have become stronger and your mind dont fall for the traps of lust anymore."
 
BrassBalls707

BrassBalls707

Active Member
Ren said:
Day 0

I tried to numb the pain.
I don't feel bad about losing the streak.
But this time, numbing didn't work. Because it's too much pain to numb.

It feels like someone took my heart out and left the pain there.

Had a terrible nightmare, couldn't sleep well.
I wish I could relief this.
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Heartbreak was a catalyst for some of my worst and best behaviors. Friend, I understand what you are going through.

Allow yourself to grieve deeply until you've had enough. Work through it.

I know this is not the end for you. It is a beginning. Learn what you can from this relationship, and let it propel you forward instead of dragging you down.

Please give yourself the opportunity and time to grieve first or this may drag on for too long. Observe that pain you describe, see what you can feel and find. Understand what it implies, what it means.

These experiences are inevitable. Now that you had this experience, be better for it in the end. Come out on top. You can do this.

Onwards and upwards, friend!
 
Ren

Ren

Member
BrassBalls707 said:
Heartbreak was a catalyst for some of my worst and best behaviors. Friend, I understand what you are going through.

Allow yourself to grieve deeply until you've had enough. Work through it.

I know this is not the end for you. It is a beginning. Learn what you can from this relationship, and let it propel you forward instead of dragging you down.

Please give yourself the opportunity and time to grieve first or this may drag on for too long. Observe that pain you describe, see what you can feel and find. Understand what it implies, what it means.

These experiences are inevitable. Now that you had this experience, be better for it in the end. Come out on top. You can do this.

Onwards and upwards, friend!
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Bro
There was no heartbreak so far that didn't disrupt my life.
All of them brought huge amounts of damage.
This one is worse than others, because this one actually CAN become a marriage or the worst of them so far.
Girl is not gone yet, but the situation is very not good.

Damn.
I just hope everything goes well
Especially if she's out of my life.
 
Ren

Ren

Member
Day 0

Chaser effect is rampant, huh? 5 relapses in a row? Every day one?

Get up already.
Time is running out.
 
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