Quitting porn to become a REAL MAN.

Blondie

Blondie

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Hey, @Ren, I'm sorry to hear about this. I remember back in the day in my 20s, I would be absolutely sure I was "officially done forever" and then within three days I was back to it again. My heart was right. However, eventually three days seems like nothing, and then you go on to the next milestone, and then the next, with each becoming easier and easier. There's a real need to love yourself and figure out what brings you back to it. Is it anxiety? stress? or just the habit itself that needs to be replaced with something else? These are all great questions to ask yourself. So much of this journey is really figuring out what makes you tick and how can you go through a day without veering into unwanted territory. It's very easy to be focused on Not Looking At Porn, however, when you stop to think about it, the real question is, why are you even looking at it? If you focus more on the reasons than "fighting" the end result (porn), you might find the road becomes easier.

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Ren

Ren

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Blondie said:
Hey, @Ren, I'm sorry to hear about this. I remember back in the day in my 20s, I would be absolutely sure I was "officially done forever" and then within three days I was back to it again. My heart was right. However, eventually three days seems like nothing, and then you go on to the next milestone, and then the next, with each becoming easier and easier. There's a real need to love yourself and figure out what brings you back to it. Is it anxiety? stress? or just the habit itself that needs to be replaced with something else? These are all great questions to ask yourself. So much of this journey is really figuring out what makes you tick and how can you go through a day without veering into unwanted territory. It's very easy to be focused on Not Looking At Porn, however, when you stop to think about it, the real question is, why are you even looking at it? If you focus more on the reasons than "fighting" the end result (porn), you might find the road becomes easier.

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Well man
There are just so many layers to it
But I feel lazy to write about it. Thanks for the comment, I'll see what I figure. Those questions I have the answer for.
 
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