Fetish induced ED — Would love some advice from people who've got through it

[Oscar40]

ED is real but I get your point.

And whether it was a real erectile dysfunction (that is the case) is also irrelevant.

Do you know what I did the day I found out I had erectile dysfunction?


Answer: I started laughing at myself. I laughed and laughed at my own erectile dysfunction (which thankfully was PIED and was cured long ago thanks to the reboot).

If you notice that I am not the only one in this forum who tells you that you have "a lot of nonsense in your head"?

On the other hand:

Suppose you have erectile dysfunction.

Do you think that sexual life revolves around an erect penis? No not at all. Happy sex life is much more than that. In my opinion.


Suppose you have erectile dysfunction:

Fortunately, erectile dysfunction is one of the most treatable conditions today, there are thousands of treatments and most are very successful. Let's assume this: If I had erectile dysfunction, I'd be laughing my ass off because it's a very treatable condition. I prefer to suffer a thousand times erectile dysfunction (for example) and not blindness, (for example, in case that I supposedly will had vision problems).

I put the above as an example (not that I have problems with my eyesight) to serve as a reflection.

In this world, there are thousands of people who suffer from "intractable" problems and yet live happily, for someone like you to complain about the issue of "supposed impotence", something that is currently very treatable, especially in the country where you live.

 

[Reboot_Brazil]

Hey — 26M here. Would love some advice.

TLDR

• Have a thing for “curvy girls” / weight gain
• Don't watch porn
• Do watch curvy content. E.g. “Gained weight. Bikini try on video”
• 90% of my sexual fantasy is this fetish
• Have ED. Guessing they're linked.

I know you're going to say STOP fuelling it, STOP fantasising. You're right.

I've had this fetish since 15. I don't think it's going away.

Would love some advice from anyone who's got through anything similar. I need belief as much as anything else. Thank you.

When I was younger I starded to see porn about foot feitiche, so the only way that I could get hard is seeing this kinda porn. But as the days without porn is passing away this feitiche begun to be so weird for me and now I don´t feel any atractive for foot like I did.