For my unborn

searching4good

Active Member
Hey G, just wanted to say that 2weeks+ is some going. How have you been since Thursday?

I am so sorry to hear the news about the divorce, I haven't been through that myself so I'm not going to say I understand how it feels. I can't imagine the hurt and sorrow, but who's to say that if you keep putting in the work now, keep plugging away at yourself and the factors that brought you to P, that in a year's time you won't be in a better place than you were a year previous to now.

Things definitely don't always happen for the best, but you can make the best of the situation - Regardless of how the divorce may or may not play out, and regardless of who else is in your life. We just don't know what's ahead of us, but I am in absolutely no doubt that better things will happen for all of us the longer we keep fighting this fight.

thinking of you and looking forward to reading your next post mate.
 

G.123

Member
Hey G, just wanted to say that 2weeks+ is some going. How have you been since Thursday?
Hey man, thank you for the message, really appreciate the support. Sorry for the late reply, I've been trying to keep myself busy so not been on here for a few days. You are spot on that we need to keep striving for self improvement, I've felt down and weak these last few days but I keep telling myself that I cannot give in. You have given me an extra push in motivation as you are right that in a years time I want to be in a better place than I am now, whatever form that may take. Good advice for us all that better things will come through self improvement and any PMO is only going to set us back. I'm not giving in no matter how weak and down I feel right now
 

G.123

Member
Day 24. Hard to believe I have got to 24 days with no O, MO, PMO, nothing! I thought I had entered the flat line but definetly haven't as spent a fair amount of time recently looking at instagram pics and even scrolling through an escort site, no intention of using an escort but was clearly just giving myself the excuse that it isnt porn but enables me to look at images. So I keep blocking instagram and unblocking but I am blocking again and want to stay off for a week. Have also enabled safe search on my phone to block any sort of site like an escort site. I know I can easily reactivate but I think just giving myself that extra blocker so that I know when I unblock safe mode I know exactly what I am doing and will hopefully ask myself is it really worth doing that. I am hoping that if I can get away from images all together I can get to some sort of flatline, ride that out and then come out the other side a rejuvenated man! So I have a plan, just need to execute it!!
 

PrometheusUnbound

Active Member
Social media is a difficult one, I have found it useful so far to categorise it in my head as a (mild) form of porn that I have to stay away from (for now at least), and for me that also applies to ogling in any form.

Well done on 24 days!!!
 

searching4good

Active Member
Hey @G.123 - just wanted to check in to see how it was all going. Sorry I've been a bit absent recently - has not been the smoothest few days for me! But I'm so chuffed to hear you made it to 24 days. That's genuinely incredible.

Hoping you're doing ok and thinking of you either way.
 

searching4good

Active Member
Hey @G.123 - hope you're doing ok mate. Just wanted to say I've been thinking of you and regardless of how you've been doing the last week or so, am hoping you're being kind to yourself.

Speak soon pal.
 
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