Where should I ask a question that might cause some people to relapse?

lupiniii

New Member
It's the issue that always causes my relapses. I have a "devil's advocate" voice inside me that wants me to relapse and it always defeats me by asking a certain question I cannot answer. Where is the proper place to seek answers to that question where I won't cause other people to relapse by discussing it?
 
YOu can find it on nofap.com or this site or you just simply search on google by Quitting Porn. there are many of information you get there and how to overcome this. we got to do it, this is my first day quitting PMO. Keep the good spirit!
also you can look at this :
hello. you should check in every day and track your progress by having a journal on this site! come join the challenge made by people on Twitter and this site using #100DaysWithout PMO and try to substitute it with anything you like #100DaysofCode or #100DaysOfArt. You can find it on Twitter, it not only reduces your temptation to the PMO but also it can you get a new source of income especially if you try to join the code 100 days code challenge using freecodecamp.com
 

strongfuture89

Active Member
@lupiniii
I do not know your question, but I myself have been surrounded by people that give false information to think porn is okay. In that sense, I want to share with you some things that helped me today and got me started on this website today. I hope this can help. If I am on the wrong track, just tell me and I´ll try to understand better. I´d like to add some strong statistics to give a better insight on the detrimental effects of porn but I would prefer to pick out the most important things for you.

Porn will never love you back. It will leave you just as it found you—alone. Porn won’t fight for you, it won’t look after you, and it won’t make you appreciate the little things in life. Love offers companionship, friendship, and a close bond that no feeling on this earth can rival. Humans are wired to feel love, and to bond to another three-dimensional person that can live life with them. Love can push you to to be a better person and give unselfishly, lifting your partner’s wants and needs above your own. Porn capitalizes on the idea that your pleasure and your enjoyment are the most important things regardless of anyone else’s pain, suffering, or abuse. The actors you see in porn will never hold your hand or grow old with you, but love can last through trials and seasons of life. Fighting for love means fighting for the things in life that are healthy, and worthwhile, and fighting against the toxicity that is porn.
Fight the New Drug (via yesdarlingido)
 

Bruce K

New Member
It's the issue that always causes my relapses. I have a "devil's advocate" voice inside me that wants me to relapse and it always defeats me by asking a certain question I cannot answer. Where is the proper place to seek answers to that question where I won't cause other people to relapse by discussing it?
please face urge.. after sometime the urge will lower.. get out or do somwthing else but please don't relapse. i know your brain will be like an autopilot and you have no control.. but in that situation dont do anything or try to stay outside or go for a walk.. if you keep relapsing.. without even noticing you will waste years of your precious life.. Porn and masturbation.. wil consumed your ambition, life goals, your courage to face life.. you will like a zombie.. please bear the unbearable and get out of that shit hole once and for all. porn and masturbation is not a part of your life any more.. you have one life dont waste it.. as time goes you will start to enjoy little incidents of life.. even boredom is also a part of life dont relapse to escape stress and boredom of life.. i waste 23 years of my life on Porn and Masturbation it really consumed everything about my life.. i am abstaining from 16th oct 2022 and i am going face the uncomfortable of my life now.. porn and masturbation is not part of my life anymore.. brother exit PMO its the only way of life
 
please face urge.. after sometime the urge will lower.. get out or do somwthing else but please don't relapse. i know your brain will be like an autopilot and you have no control.. but in that situation dont do anything or try to stay outside or go for a walk.. if you keep relapsing.. without even noticing you will waste years of your precious life.. Porn and masturbation.. wil consumed your ambition, life goals, your courage to face life.. you will like a zombie.. please bear the unbearable and get out of that shit hole once and for all. porn and masturbation is not a part of your life any more.. you have one life dont waste it.. as time goes you will start to enjoy little incidents of life.. even boredom is also a part of life dont relapse to escape stress and boredom of life.. i waste 23 years of my life on Porn and Masturbation it really consumed everything about my life.. i am abstaining from 16th oct 2022 and i am going face the uncomfortable of my life now.. porn and masturbation is not part of my life anymore.. brother exit PMO its the only way of life
Hey man, 23 years of PMO sounds crazy (I've had maybe half and that's already a lot). How are you doing right now? Keep up the good work and follow your path!
 

Bruce K

New Member
Hey man, 23 years of PMO sounds crazy (I've had maybe half and that's already a lot). How are you doing right now? Keep up the good work and follow your path!
I try to quit many time in past years (past 10 years trying to quit, i know it was doing bad in my life), but i always relapse.. may be I don't have the courage of understanding of this addiction... then, I encountered www. nofap.org, www.yourbrainrebalanced.com, www.rebootnation.org in the beginning of October, 2022, . After reading the post there, and "your brain on porn" by Gary wilson, Porn Pandemic, I started some understanding of this addiction science.. My longest No PMO was from may 2022 to september 2022, then I relapse while browsing facebook. Now I deleted my facebook account also. Today i.e. 15-11-2022. I completed 30 days of NO PMO, I will try my level best not to ever relapse again, I try to stay away from phone also. I am 34 years old and 6 months old, PMO has consumed everything from me. It burnt by My life goals, ambition, beauty of life and left me like a zombie. I put myself to a prison of instant pleasure of PMO and it consumed and burnt my life to ashes.. Now I am bit scare of my life and future.. all my friends are well settled and I am lagging far behind in life without a proper job.. I am the one left behind hopelessly still single, virgin (sometimes my friends make fun of me for being single and virgin till now, so I try to avoid them). sometimes i feel I don't have any interest to live ... But still I have decided to see, after I cut PMO completely from my life, Is there anything positive thing that pop up in life.. Now I am just hopping to get better after cutting PMO. I wish I encountered this websites a few years earlier, life would be a little bit different. But there is no redo of undo button in life... I can only wish If I quit this PMO thing some 5 years earlier..
 

strongfuture89

Active Member
Okay, so the original poster hasn´t been online anymore after posting his message. I hope he´ll come back online and start his reboot...
 
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