Premature Ejaculation - what's your story and solution?

[Wabbajack]

Hey to you all who fight the good fight!

I want to talk about ways to deal with premature ejaculation, be it severe or not.

I'm currently porn-free and MO for almost a year, kept having sex after an initial 3 months hardmode.

When we had sex with a condom I had some problems with PE, but held them in check by focusing of breath, kegels and slowing down. When we switched to IUD the sensation became much more stimulating and I'm almost always on the edge when it comes to penetration. I keep doing kegels and it has some effect, but I want to know more ways to overcome PE.

I strongly consider going back to MO (of course no porn) after hitting the One Year No MO milestone as I read about a ton of practices to deal with PE involving:

• Masturbation meditation
• Conscious masturbation
• Making it a ritual, like a prolonged session to get to know your body
• Edging
• Kegels excersices

I wanted to ask you what are your experiences about premature ejaculation and what were you doing to overcome it.

Cheers!

Wabba

 

[Tryinghere]

Hey to you all who fight the good fight!

I want to talk about ways to deal with premature ejaculation, be it severe or not.

I'm currently porn-free and MO for almost a year, kept having sex after an initial 3 months hardmode.

When we had sex with a condom I had some problems with PE, but held them in check by focusing of breath, kegels and slowing down. When we switched to IUD the sensation became much more stimulating and I'm almost always on the edge when it comes to penetration. I keep doing kegels and it has some effect, but I want to know more ways to overcome PE.

I strongly consider going back to MO (of course no porn) after hitting the One Year No MO milestone as I read about a ton of practices to deal with PE involving:

• Masturbation meditation
• Conscious masturbation
• Making it a ritual, like a prolonged session to get to know your body
• Edging
• Kegels excersices

I wanted to ask you what are your experiences about premature ejaculation and what were you doing to overcome it.

Cheers!

Wabba

I think you’re on the right track. PIED was my issue, not PE. But if I were in your shoes, MO without porn is definitely something I would try. Also, what about maybe just blowing one out real quick, recover and then go again? Before PIED, I could do a nifty trick where I could bring myself pat edge, but not complete orgasm. I could just cum a little bit, it was enough that I could keep going, but not so much that we had to stop. If you’re doing kegals, you’re working the right area. Maybe give it a shot.

 

[Wabbajack]

Hi, Tryinghere!

Thanks for responding. This trick of yours sounds nice, although risky, is it easy to have a full orgasm instead?

Yesterday we had sex and I felt like this week of 20-minutes-a-day Kegels I've been doing are actually doing something, I felt much more in control, although came pretty quickly. This is really encouraging since I still have my doubts about MOing again, especially "rubbing one out", since this is the kind of practice that could potentially get out of hand (pun not intended ) pretty quickly (pun ever more not intended).

I still have time until September (my one year mark) to decide whether I want to MO or not And even then, no pressure, I can just keep going without MO We'll see.

So far: KEGELS!