Hi everyone. I've finally made the decision to start a real reboot instead of just convincing myself I'll try to watch less porn (didn't even know rebooting was a thing). Bit of background, I started watching porn at around 11, interacting with other sexual chats etc in my teens (it's crazy to think about) and PMOing at around 17. I'm now 23 in a new and happy relationship with a man, I don't consider myself a porn addict as I wouldn't say I turn to it very frequently, however, the periods in which I do worry me, and I've tried to stop it for a couple years now.
I can orgasm with my partner but I have to fantasise during sex to reach it. This is something I've only seen mentioned once in an article and I wonder how frequent it is, or wether it is more frequent for women? I also definitely see myself going down the kink spiral, and seek more violent content each time. I am sure this has an effect on how turned on I get by the real sex I have, as although it isn't vanilla, we all know porn holds no link to reality.
Despite being in the first few months of my relationship, I notice my libido is not that high as I know it could be. I want to have an accelerated heart rate and lubricate just from my partner staring into my eyes. So today I'm starting my reboot, wish me luck!
PS: It's probably no use, but I would love to see some success stories from cis women. I love reading guys successfully getting erections and enjoying sex, but it does feel lonely that there's no female perspective
I can orgasm with my partner but I have to fantasise during sex to reach it. This is something I've only seen mentioned once in an article and I wonder how frequent it is, or wether it is more frequent for women? I also definitely see myself going down the kink spiral, and seek more violent content each time. I am sure this has an effect on how turned on I get by the real sex I have, as although it isn't vanilla, we all know porn holds no link to reality.
Despite being in the first few months of my relationship, I notice my libido is not that high as I know it could be. I want to have an accelerated heart rate and lubricate just from my partner staring into my eyes. So today I'm starting my reboot, wish me luck!
PS: It's probably no use, but I would love to see some success stories from cis women. I love reading guys successfully getting erections and enjoying sex, but it does feel lonely that there's no female perspective