The Infamous 90 Days!!!!

Recovery Will Come

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It’s been a long 3 months but made it to the infamous 90 days…. This is just the beginning of my journey… My brain is returning to my old brain where triggers don’t affect me anymore and feels like I’m back in real life.. Not fully recovered yet.. Morning wood is coming back slowly…. But I feel I have to go all out as far as diet, going to the gym and eating less sugar… The new job, and drinking lots of water!!!! I never thought I would make it to this point ever and was a far off dream I never thought I would reach..
Benefits: More energy: I’m up early every day!!! Do my daily workout session with my dumbbells, played basketball every morning pre vacation, and had more energy to run errands and get things done… Social Anxiety gone and women attraction: I can socialize a lot better with women and people in general… I was on vacation and felt like I could talk to anybody.. Especially women… I noticed women pay much more attention to me everywhere I went… Just natural attraction… I felt like I was back in my high school days haha….
Back in real life: I feel back in real life and living in the world rather than just existing… I’m not fully recovered yet I can tell but if I keep on this journey I know I will be….
Stay on this path fellas the benefits are totally worth it… I will update when I make it to 120 days…
 
Congrats, man! Did you go through a flatline and days where your sex drive as nonexistent? Dealing with that now and it’s unnerving to say the least
 

The Tunesmith

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It’s been a long 3 months but made it to the infamous 90 days…. This is just the beginning of my journey… My brain is returning to my old brain where triggers don’t affect me anymore and feels like I’m back in real life.. Not fully recovered yet.. Morning wood is coming back slowly…. But I feel I have to go all out as far as diet, going to the gym and eating less sugar… The new job, and drinking lots of water!!!! I never thought I would make it to this point ever and was a far off dream I never thought I would reach..
Benefits: More energy: I’m up early every day!!! Do my daily workout session with my dumbbells, played basketball every morning pre vacation, and had more energy to run errands and get things done… Social Anxiety gone and women attraction: I can socialize a lot better with women and people in general… I was on vacation and felt like I could talk to anybody.. Especially women… I noticed women pay much more attention to me everywhere I went… Just natural attraction… I felt like I was back in my high school days haha….
Back in real life: I feel back in real life and living in the world rather than just existing… I’m not fully recovered yet I can tell but if I keep on this journey I know I will be….
Stay on this path fellas the benefits are totally worth it… I will update when I make it to 120 days…
Congrats Bro... And, it gets even better at 60, 90, 120, etc. Your other interests (weights, sports, work) are likely a huge help, in that if you are occupied otherwise, you aren't as apt to be lured by temptation, so, keep it up...
 

The Tunesmith

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Hey, congratulations! What do you recommend for someone who has only made it to around 30 days? I'm finding it hard to break that wall.
Pray... To whom ever you consider your higher power to be. Talk to that power every day. Cry on it's shoulder, and ask it to help you through each minute of each day... Find something else that interests you, ( a hobby or physical activity) and use that as something to focus on aside from your desire to use. Find an accountability partner. And it doesn't HAVE to be another p.a... It can be anyone who has recovered from an addiction. Yeah, a p.a is better, but if one isn't available another addict who has recovered can help... DON'T GET DISCOURAGED... I been free of the porn plague for 7 months now, but, there were several months prior to that day (April 18, 2021) that I struggled to maintain. I'd go a couple of weeks, then fall off the wagon and use. I WANTED to just give up, but I didn't. So, I hope you don't relapse, but if you should don't give up. This isn't something that will just go away, you have to FIGHT, and you may loose a few rounds. Hope this helped.
Persevere Brother
 
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