CovertReforge
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So I'm working back through the legacy version of Mark Queppet's Reforged Man course, and he recommends journaling and interacting on a porn recovery forum to help with accountability. I've tried doing some daily journaling but I rarely stuck to it and I usually didn't like doing it. Also, I'm not much of a talker in reality or on the internet, so I always thought that I wouldn't get much out of interacting on a forum. I thought about how I could implement some sort of accountability I could stick with, and doing weekly posts on a journal here was the solution. So I'll be doing a kind of "week in review" here, looking around at what other people are posting, and posting a reply if I think I have something to add.
So this week I've binged. I relapsed four days this week. On one of those days I relapsed twice. Not ideal after going last week clean. The good news is I'm on a 2 day streak now, I'm getting back into an exercise routine through walking, and I'm getting back into another course to continue learning web development. I think most of the reason I binged was a group workout I did on Sunday night. It was a crossfit type workout with lots of burpees and jumps, with the expectation of doing lots of reps in a short amount of time. Part of the way through the workout I ran out of energy, and I went home completely worn out physically and mentally. I felt an urge, and I just didn't have the energy to deal with it, so I relapsed that night. I spent a good part of the week with low energy, and it wasn't until Thursday when I noticed my abs didn't hurt anymore from the workout. Since then, I've been figuring out ways to improve my rest, exercise, nutrition, and productivity in a way that makes sense for where I am in my recovery. Since I'm at a place where I'm watching porn more than once a week on average, and I don't have much energy, I've been focusing on making the minimum effective changes in these areas. I'm going to bed 30 minutes to an hour earlier, walking for 20-30 minutes 3 times a week, being intentional on eating 3 meals a day instead of snacking randomly, and spending 15 minutes on my web development course on non-exercise days. I'm also going to quit going to those group workouts that I mentioned before. I'm not in nearly in good enough shape to keep up during those. Judging by the attendance at the last one, I'm probably not the only one feeling that. I haven't had the chance to hang out with people much over the last couple years, but there has to be a better way than doing some intense workouts during an already hot summer.
So this week I've binged. I relapsed four days this week. On one of those days I relapsed twice. Not ideal after going last week clean. The good news is I'm on a 2 day streak now, I'm getting back into an exercise routine through walking, and I'm getting back into another course to continue learning web development. I think most of the reason I binged was a group workout I did on Sunday night. It was a crossfit type workout with lots of burpees and jumps, with the expectation of doing lots of reps in a short amount of time. Part of the way through the workout I ran out of energy, and I went home completely worn out physically and mentally. I felt an urge, and I just didn't have the energy to deal with it, so I relapsed that night. I spent a good part of the week with low energy, and it wasn't until Thursday when I noticed my abs didn't hurt anymore from the workout. Since then, I've been figuring out ways to improve my rest, exercise, nutrition, and productivity in a way that makes sense for where I am in my recovery. Since I'm at a place where I'm watching porn more than once a week on average, and I don't have much energy, I've been focusing on making the minimum effective changes in these areas. I'm going to bed 30 minutes to an hour earlier, walking for 20-30 minutes 3 times a week, being intentional on eating 3 meals a day instead of snacking randomly, and spending 15 minutes on my web development course on non-exercise days. I'm also going to quit going to those group workouts that I mentioned before. I'm not in nearly in good enough shape to keep up during those. Judging by the attendance at the last one, I'm probably not the only one feeling that. I haven't had the chance to hang out with people much over the last couple years, but there has to be a better way than doing some intense workouts during an already hot summer.