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[Michaelp362]

Hi everyone, so I’m quite new to the reboot process. I’ve been on hard mode for the last 4 days. It’s been hard obviously. Had temptations with a girl but overcame it. Been lifting weights a lot and just focusing on my diet. So overall it’s been nice. I never really thought about it until now, but I’m not sure if this is part of the reboot process or not. When I would relapse I would notice it would take 5 seconds just for me to finish. However when I relapsed more and more it would take a little bit longer for me to finish. Is it since I haven’t masturbated in awhile, if that’s the reason I finish so quick, or if it’s smt else and if it’s normal in the reboot. I’m just not sure how to “fix” it or what would help prevent me from finishing so quick. Any advice helps thank you.

 

[IrishWarrior]

Hey dude, you shouldn't relapse on a reboot. I always think avoiding all self pleasure is the best way to go, if you have a partner you can practice Karezza or if you orgasm with your girl then that's a success as long as you didn't touch it. If you don't have a partner, I would suggest going cold turkey until you get out there and date, which you will then have an amazing sex life for not playing with yourself alone

 

[Michaelp362]

Thanks. Yea after a couple relapses I realized that o was tired of doing the same thing and wanted to make a change. I’m 6 days clean and I feel amazing. But I just noticed that the lest time I relapsed and I was just curious if it was part of the reboot and if other ppl go through it.

 

[IrishWarrior]

It depends on the person as everyone is different. For me I have gone only 2 months on no fap and porn which has helped my DE problem. I dont know what you are actually trying to ask?

 

[Michaelp362]

For premature ejaculation. Sorry I should have been clearer. That’s what I have. But the thing is before my addiction when I would masturbate just to thoughts i didn’t have it. So I’m wondering if it’s from my addiction or just normal.

 

[IrishWarrior]

For premature ejaculation. Sorry I should have been clearer. That’s what I have. But the thing is before my addiction when I would masturbate just to thoughts i didn’t have it. So I’m wondering if it’s from my addiction or just normal.

So some guys who struggle with PE try edging when pleasing themselves, but don't watch porn or use social media girls to imagine. I would suggest not pleasing yourself and focus alot on pleasing your other half more and then towards the end when they are happy, then you could get them to return the favor. If you don't have a partner maybe try turning yourself on using different techniques to what you usually do, but don't climax!! So you get used to feeling turned on for longer times without the aim of climaxing and your body should get used to that feeling.

 

[Michaelp362]

Yea I would agree. Since I’m on hard reboot my first goal is curing my PIED and fixing my life, I don’t wanna ruin my streak and have to restart since giving up masturbating and watching porn is my goal. I don’t know how true this is but I read I don’t remember where but I read that my PE could be caused since I masturbated so much, that my penis is just used to my touch, again I don’t know how true that is but I’m hoping giving up masturbation will help prevent PE, and also I have been doing kegels so hopefully these will also help.