1 year without fapping

[Project700]

Like i said whole a year without faping,
I used to have problem with ED and DE but now seems my DE its cured but i cannot say same for ED
Im hard but when i try penetrate i become soft immediatly i dont know why , a full year without masturbate or watching porn never relapsed full focused and stillmy D shrink when im ready to PIV. Do i have performance anxiety or what can someone help me.

 

[IrishWarrior]

Congratulations on no flapping, definitely sounds like you have had major success. I think you could be over thinking the situation and need to relax. Sometimes the best way is to let her guide you in or guide yourself in without touching or stroking, to try to keep hard. If you relax, and stay in moment.. it will last long

 

[Project700]

Congratulations on no flapping, definitely sounds like you have had major success. I think you could be over thinking the situation and need to relax. Sometimes the best way is to let her guide you in or guide yourself in without touching or stroking, to try to keep hard. If you relax, and stay in moment.. it will last long

Thank you mate, i really appreciate

 

[aymentech45]

Like i said whole a year without faping,
I used to have problem with ED and DE but now seems my DE its cured but i cannot say same for ED
Im hard but when i try penetrate i become soft immediatly i dont know why , a full year without masturbate or watching porn never relapsed full focused and stillmy D shrink when im ready to PIV. Do i have performance anxiety or what can someone help me.

Good work bro, you've face the hardest part, but keep in your mind that scientists have showed that brain need from 2 to 5 years to get its balance, It also depends on where you got started watching porn and how long as well, as a teenager is little bit complicated but impossible, anyway bro keep going you will heal Insl.

 

[Project700]

Good work bro, you've face the hardest part, but keep in your mind that scientists have showed that brain need from 2 to 5 years to get its balance, It also depends on where you got started watching porn and how long as well, as a teenager is little bit complicated but impossible, anyway bro keep going you will heal Insl.

Thank you bro, i’ve tried sex and im having success every time im so proud of myself finally i did it, im never gonna watch porn or masturbate with that shit -.-

 

[GBS]

Good work @Project700 - you are my hero. You are the discipline deity of RN. I think @IrishWarrior is right and you may need to stay in the moment. Don’t worry so much. You will never go back to porn so fret not.

 

[Tryinghere]

I’m a year in today. I HAVE masturbated but have not watched porn. Same things me. I seem to have performance anxiety a lot of the time now. How’d you get past it?

 

[IrishWarrior]

I’m a year in today. I HAVE masturbated but have not watched porn. Same things me. I seem to have performance anxiety a lot of the time now. How’d you get past it?

If you masturbate with your hands, it will set you back as only you will have a unique technique to any partner you have now or in the future. Try getting your partner to help or if you are single use a sex toy to try and achieve orgasm. Having a death grip, will set you back even though most people don't think they do, that area is sensitive.

Performance anxiety comes down to alot of things such as daily stress and low self confidence. Maybe try hitting the gym and doing more exercise to release stress and also get the feel good of improving yourself and the confidence that comes with it. You will notice a difference if you do that for 3 months, every day.

 

[Tryinghere]

If you masturbate with your hands, it will set you back as only you will have a unique technique to any partner you have now or in the future. Try getting your partner to help or if you are single use a sex toy to try and achieve orgasm. Having a death grip, will set you back even though most people don't think they do, that area is sensitive.

Performance anxiety comes down to alot of things such as daily stress and low self confidence. Maybe try hitting the gym and doing more exercise to release stress and also get the feel good of improving yourself and the confidence that comes with it. You will notice a difference if you do that for 3 months, every day.

Thanks for the reply. I’m actually healthier than I’ve been since I was a teen lol. Been going to the gym. I have an idea of where the core of my issue is I suppose. I’ve been married for 10 years. We’ve had amazing sex. At this point though, I live in the memories of the year prior to my reboot when my dock was completely broken. I’m having a hard time getting past the fear of it not Working.
It’s not a huge concern. I’m confident that with more time it will get better. It already has. I just want to speed things along. To that end, nutrition and exercise have been vital…..as well as unplugging from all social media.