should i avoid having orgasm with my gf?

jackomg

New Member
Hello guys im really happy to join the Reboot process however i need advice, i started to quit porn since last time i wanted to have sex with my gf i couldn't keep my erection i lost it quickly without constat stimulation like masturbation with hand when i tried to put it in i didnt feel much and quickly lost my erection and noticed my anxiety and lack of arousal so i stopped porn and masturbation im 3 weeks in and pretty much noticed morning woods and few stronger random erections that until my gf came back from a trip we saw each other and she masturbate me and made me cum 3 times in a week afterwards i feel like i havent had strong random erections and i feel my sexual drive is still pretty much low so i want to know if i should avoid having orgasm for a while in order for my reboot to work faster.

Also having sexual fantasy with my gf doesnt help? should i avoid that too?

thanks a lot for the comments guys! stay strong
 

Tryinghere

Active Member
The short answer is yes, avoid orgasm for a bit. Kareeza worked amazingly well for us as well once we started fooling around again.
 
Hello guys im really happy to join the Reboot process however i need advice, i started to quit porn since last time i wanted to have sex with my gf i couldn't keep my erection i lost it quickly without constat stimulation like masturbation with hand when i tried to put it in i didnt feel much and quickly lost my erection and noticed my anxiety and lack of arousal so i stopped porn and masturbation im 3 weeks in and pretty much noticed morning woods and few stronger random erections that until my gf came back from a trip we saw each other and she masturbate me and made me cum 3 times in a week afterwards i feel like i havent had strong random erections and i feel my sexual drive is still pretty much low so i want to know if i should avoid having orgasm for a while in order for my reboot to work faster.

Also having sexual fantasy with my gf doesnt help? should i avoid that too?

thanks a lot for the comments guys! stay strong
Don't stop fantasising about your gf because it's a natural thought, just do not act on these thoughts with your own hand! If you get these thoughts talk to the gf about it and maybe later on she can help you by using something else than her hand.

Alot of people think you shouldn't orgasm during a reboot. But I disagree as the aim is to orgasm with your girl and you to also return the favour, more importantly.

Just don't watch porn as its unrealistic or use social media attractive woman to stimulate yourself with your own hand. As this is the cause to the majority of people's problems. Hope this helps!
 
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