SiliconValley91
New Member
My story is no different from that of many of you. I started watching porn on the internet at the age of eleven, with the big spike in porn consumption occurring at 17/18, when I got my first laptop.
At 17 I had my first failed opportunity to have sex. I put it down to nervousness, however the lack of excitement was almost total.
Between the ages of 17 and 22, I tried to have sex on several occasions, failing on all of them. At this point I was consuming porn between 2 and 3 times a day, for hours, totally deviant genres (fetish, femdom, cuckold...)
When I was 22 I met a girl that I really liked and despite the large amount of porn I was consuming at that time, I was able to have sex with her without problems every time I tried. We were together for a few months and after the breakup, thinking my problem was gone, I tried having sex with other women, failing miserably again.
In 2020 I discovered NOFAP, and after several attempts to quit porn, I got a streak of 120 days. During this time I met a girl, with whom I did not have sex for fear of failing again. Still, I did notice my body responding sexually.
After this streak I relapsed again, although never to the levels of when I was 18-22 years old. This same year I met a girl and I failed again.
About a couple of months ago I met a girl I really like and at the same time I started a new NOFAP streak. We went on a few dates, and finally after a month of dating and NOFAP we had sex! At first I had a hard time relaxing, but after a couple of minutes of foreplay I got a rock hard boner from start to finish and we had amazing sex.
After that day we have been having amazing sex at all hours for 10 days with no problems.
I am currently 41 days without watching porn or masturbating, and I am able to have sex with my girlfriend without any problems. However, I only achieve orgasm with PIV, not being able to reach orgasm with blowjobs or handjobs.
But that's so much more than I thought I could ever achieve for years, so I'm just overjoyed.
At 17 I had my first failed opportunity to have sex. I put it down to nervousness, however the lack of excitement was almost total.
Between the ages of 17 and 22, I tried to have sex on several occasions, failing on all of them. At this point I was consuming porn between 2 and 3 times a day, for hours, totally deviant genres (fetish, femdom, cuckold...)
When I was 22 I met a girl that I really liked and despite the large amount of porn I was consuming at that time, I was able to have sex with her without problems every time I tried. We were together for a few months and after the breakup, thinking my problem was gone, I tried having sex with other women, failing miserably again.
In 2020 I discovered NOFAP, and after several attempts to quit porn, I got a streak of 120 days. During this time I met a girl, with whom I did not have sex for fear of failing again. Still, I did notice my body responding sexually.
After this streak I relapsed again, although never to the levels of when I was 18-22 years old. This same year I met a girl and I failed again.
About a couple of months ago I met a girl I really like and at the same time I started a new NOFAP streak. We went on a few dates, and finally after a month of dating and NOFAP we had sex! At first I had a hard time relaxing, but after a couple of minutes of foreplay I got a rock hard boner from start to finish and we had amazing sex.
After that day we have been having amazing sex at all hours for 10 days with no problems.
I am currently 41 days without watching porn or masturbating, and I am able to have sex with my girlfriend without any problems. However, I only achieve orgasm with PIV, not being able to reach orgasm with blowjobs or handjobs.
But that's so much more than I thought I could ever achieve for years, so I'm just overjoyed.
So I recommend that you try the same thing that has worked for me: no fap and dating at the same time. Good Luck!!