Candance88
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I just discovered that my husband is a porn addict. He has been all his live with me without even noticing…he has passed already from porn to take the time when I’m not home to look for prostitutes and visit places where they sell “erotic massages” and that totally crushed me. When I confronted hum, again lying and told me it was just curiosity and that he didn’t do anything. Lies, I have found that he look for it and visit places with prostites long time ago. It is so confusing because he is great and i thought we had a great relationship, that we were supposed to be real parthenrs. The idea of he having a hide life, porn based, prostitutes….make me feel horrible, I’m also afraid….I have heard that porn addiction led to violations, and other horrible stuff when people is looking to increase the “senses” and feel more. i feel lost, this is so confusing…
We have been together for 10 years. I feel bad, very bad, it is all pain and confusion and guilty too. What should I do? He is still denying that he has an addiction and that is normal, but he see it daily in morning and our sex life has 0 connection, plus he told me he is having problems to “feel” that he feels nothing having sex. I’m 34 years old, and I feel horrible, ugly, hopeless. I feel that is my fault not knowing this before but also because I’m not enough… Where to begin? How long this will take for him to recover? People really recover from this?he is completely hiding, how to solve this? I do not want lo leave him, but I’m lost, in a lot of pain in silence and totally depressed
We have been together for 10 years. I feel bad, very bad, it is all pain and confusion and guilty too. What should I do? He is still denying that he has an addiction and that is normal, but he see it daily in morning and our sex life has 0 connection, plus he told me he is having problems to “feel” that he feels nothing having sex. I’m 34 years old, and I feel horrible, ugly, hopeless. I feel that is my fault not knowing this before but also because I’m not enough… Where to begin? How long this will take for him to recover? People really recover from this?he is completely hiding, how to solve this? I do not want lo leave him, but I’m lost, in a lot of pain in silence and totally depressed