I lost my Gf because of the Flatline😔

Scorpio1990

Active Member
Hey everyone, it finally came to the end with me and my gf. So I went into Flatline in May and was freaking out because the way I was feeling. As the days went by and got worried because of how it would ruin my relationship with my gf. I had known her since we were 14yrs old. We had on and off sex for 10yrs but got serious two years ago. Everything was perfect, we had no issues, we had sex everyday until I couldn’t get it up in March, I still managed to get it up and felt horny again a week later. Then in May everything went numb. It’s hard dealing with breakups but the worst is not being in control due the flatline. I use to be confident and I had no issue with girls but now I am at a point in my life where I don’t want anything at all. The depression and lack of pleasure makes things a lot worse. This is definitely a hard pill to swallow.
 

Warhawk88

Active Member
Sorry to hear of your breakup, @Scorpio1990!

I would like to challenge you to take the opportunity to look at this just slightly differently. The flatline is not the direct problem. Porn is. The flatline is only a result of the porn. Porn use is the only reason the flatline exists. Just a thought, and not intended to correct you in any way, more-so to offer the viewpoint of placing the blame and anger into the direct source, as to help keep the fire going in the right direction of this process. As @Blondie stated, if you continue, your dick will work again. The flatline is not forever.

Hang in there brother, and keep pushing on!
 

Scorpio1990

Active Member
I'm sorry to hear this @Scorpio1990, I really am.

I want you to know, if you continue with this reboot, life WILL get better for you and your dick WILL work again, but I know that doesn't change how this moment feels.

Best to you man.

Blondie
Thanks Blondie, I definitely trying my best to move forward. It doesn’t help with the depression and lack of emotions. I definitely thought I had some kind of support and I was doing my best to better myself.
 

Scorpio1990

Active Member
Sorry to hear of your breakup, @Scorpio1990!

I would like to challenge you to take the opportunity to look at this just slightly differently. The flatline is not the direct problem. Porn is. The flatline is only a result of the porn. Porn use is the only reason the flatline exists. Just a thought, and not intended to correct you in any way, more-so to offer the viewpoint of placing the blame and anger into the direct source, as to help keep the fire going in the right direction of this process. As @Blondie stated, if you continue, your dick will work again. The flatline is not forever.

Hang in there brother, and keep pushing on!
Your definitely right, I got into this without knowing the damage, not has it only ruined my brain but it’s broken my heart. Therefore it’s motivated me to not even bother looking. Didn’t see myself ever being in this type of situation.
 
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