WriterbyDefault
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This is my first journal, though I should have started doing this a month ago when my therapist told me about Gabe and rebootnation.
I am 25 and have struggled for years. I first knew I was addicted as a teenager but denied it was a problem until I was 19 and realized I have PIED. For years it has been a back and forth of trying to solve the problem. I wish I could have had a sexier addiction like heroin, maybe people like family would actually give a shit and take me seriously. I've never been more than a couple weeks without masturbating or looking at something of the pornographic variety. I can't date, I can't fuck, I can't succeed in any meaningful facet of life. I'm a 3 time college dropout, having burned out every time not for lack of intellect, but the inability to plan and motivate myself to succeed in such environments.
I have 17K worth of student loans to pay off and I'm stuck working in a tractor shop right now. Every time I try to branch out and embrace a new responsibility, or something to learn, or even a hobby, it feels like life slashes at my legs and cripples me further. I'm constantly teetering at the precipice of suicidal ideation and intent.
Today I wanted to out sword-fighting, in the nearby city there is a club that offers HEMA (Historic European Martial Arts). I had to leave work a half hour early just to give myself time to have dinner at home first, and I was still running late. By the time I was getting into the city, I was already late, I had to shit, and I couldn't find the place. Half an hour of driving around to find a bathroom because they're all locked due to rampant crime and homelessness, and it's now an hour late and I can't find where I'm supposed to go. This was one of several attempts to go out and join this club on different days and all thwarted by outside forces.
I wish I could take radical action, I want to cause pain if it means I'll be noticed but I know that's wickedness and ill-contrived. I want to disappear into a life of zealotry under a disciplined mentor, the kind of person who could turn me into a well learned thinker, more capable than any ideologue with a degree, and an instrument of death. I wish I had someone in my corner who could beat me into a bloody pulp every single time I strayed from my desired path. I wish the radical option existed to liberate myself from this matrix, but that path only seems to appear through a life of crime. I am angry, and self-loathing, and patience has still refused to yield me a damn thing.
I am 25 and have struggled for years. I first knew I was addicted as a teenager but denied it was a problem until I was 19 and realized I have PIED. For years it has been a back and forth of trying to solve the problem. I wish I could have had a sexier addiction like heroin, maybe people like family would actually give a shit and take me seriously. I've never been more than a couple weeks without masturbating or looking at something of the pornographic variety. I can't date, I can't fuck, I can't succeed in any meaningful facet of life. I'm a 3 time college dropout, having burned out every time not for lack of intellect, but the inability to plan and motivate myself to succeed in such environments.
I have 17K worth of student loans to pay off and I'm stuck working in a tractor shop right now. Every time I try to branch out and embrace a new responsibility, or something to learn, or even a hobby, it feels like life slashes at my legs and cripples me further. I'm constantly teetering at the precipice of suicidal ideation and intent.
Today I wanted to out sword-fighting, in the nearby city there is a club that offers HEMA (Historic European Martial Arts). I had to leave work a half hour early just to give myself time to have dinner at home first, and I was still running late. By the time I was getting into the city, I was already late, I had to shit, and I couldn't find the place. Half an hour of driving around to find a bathroom because they're all locked due to rampant crime and homelessness, and it's now an hour late and I can't find where I'm supposed to go. This was one of several attempts to go out and join this club on different days and all thwarted by outside forces.
I wish I could take radical action, I want to cause pain if it means I'll be noticed but I know that's wickedness and ill-contrived. I want to disappear into a life of zealotry under a disciplined mentor, the kind of person who could turn me into a well learned thinker, more capable than any ideologue with a degree, and an instrument of death. I wish I had someone in my corner who could beat me into a bloody pulp every single time I strayed from my desired path. I wish the radical option existed to liberate myself from this matrix, but that path only seems to appear through a life of crime. I am angry, and self-loathing, and patience has still refused to yield me a damn thing.