hippydippy
Member
I've been "trying" to quit for almost 2 years now and I cant seem to get myself to stop relapsing. My addiction has put impossible strain on my relationship and i have caused her too much pain because of it. Every time I try to reboot or rewire my brain, i fall flat, and what makes it a million times worse is that i keep lying to my partner about it, continuously breaking her trust and completely disrespecting her boundaries. I love her too much to keep doing this to her, and not only that but i am doing this for myself, i know that i can put my time and energy into something a lot more productive than PMO, but it seems to be all i think about sometimes and i just can't stand it being like that anymore. I wanna post on here daily to show me where and when I'm having problems and to remind myself that I can do better. I relapsed today for the first time in a few weeks and my girlfriend found out about it and i still decided to lie about it, despite the innumerable amount of times she has told me not to lie to her about it and that that will only make things worse, i know it makes things worse but for some reason my first instinct is to save my ass rather than own up to it. I wasnt to get rid of that habit and I want to get rid of the urges for PMO. My goal for now is to go for 2 weeks with no PMO or MO at all. I want to set a new goal after that and continue to rebuild what ive broken about myself.