Has anyone else experienced this

DRSAM

New Member
Hey guys, I want to share my journey so far, I’m wondering if anyone else has been through this, gotten past this, is still experiencing this or anyone who can help.

I started watching porn when I was 14, but even before this I already had a foot/hand fetish.

I’m 25 now, and the only porn I really watch/have watched is handjobs and footjobs or a mixture of the two, I only recently started watching normal porn (in attempt to counterract the damage)

I can’t maintain an erection hard enough to have sex, I’ve quit porn/fap about three or four times, four a period of 3-4 months, but nothing ever seemed to work, despite me being in great shape, eating healthily and naturally.

I have had full success once in my life, and maintained an erection during sex maybe 3times in my life.

The one time it worked, I was on Cialis with an old partner, and we had full blown sex on day 2 of being on it. I even came from the sex.
I was 20 at the time.
I’ve tried with escorts on Cialis many times after this but it just never worked again, normally I go to escorts to get footjobs and handjobs now, as this is the only way I can really get off to anything.

I want to be able to have sex with my partner, what do I have to do? How can I maintain an erection during sex?
 

Scaliac

Member
Hi @DRSAM. Keep abstaining from P, just forget about it and never look back. I'm not a success myself as I've recently started, but I've read enough of those stories that I'm under the impression that we'll all get there in the end. Inform yourself on hows and whys about brain and addiction, YBOP webpage has some great information about this, also the book your brain on porn is great as well.
Stay strong and keep going.
 
Hey guys, I want to share my journey so far, I’m wondering if anyone else has been through this, gotten past this, is still experiencing this or anyone who can help.

I started watching porn when I was 14, but even before this I already had a foot/hand fetish.

I’m 25 now, and the only porn I really watch/have watched is handjobs and footjobs or a mixture of the two, I only recently started watching normal porn (in attempt to counterract the damage)

I can’t maintain an erection hard enough to have sex, I’ve quit porn/fap about three or four times, four a period of 3-4 months, but nothing ever seemed to work, despite me being in great shape, eating healthily and naturally.

I have had full success once in my life, and maintained an erection during sex maybe 3times in my life.

The one time it worked, I was on Cialis with an old partner, and we had full blown sex on day 2 of being on it. I even came from the sex.
I was 20 at the time.
I’ve tried with escorts on Cialis many times after this but it just never worked again, normally I go to escorts to get footjobs and handjobs now, as this is the only way I can really get off to anything.

I want to be able to have sex with my partner, what do I have to do? How can I maintain an erection during sex?
Hey man, are you off P(MO) now? If not, start immediately! Sounds like you always jumped back to P when after those periods of abstinence. If you want to get to the point of having great erections and amazing sex, you gotta quit P for good. Do you have someone to rewire with?
 
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