Am in flatline? Please help me.

littleboss

New Member
I am a new member. (Sorry if my English is not good, because this is not my language). I am 33 years old, have been married for 6 years and have a 5 year old child. I watched porn since I was a kid and still watch it after I got married, I recently discovered that I no longer have the desire for sex (even other hobbies seem to have disappeared). I went to the doctor and when tested, the testosterone level was 11.49 nmol / l, the doctor said it was normal and gave me tadalafil 10mg, 1/2 tablet in the morning and 1 functional food. good for sperm. After researching on my forum, I think myself in a flatline?, I'm really worried and tired, I read your comments, I hope you guys can give me some suggestions so I can get out of this situation because now I'm 'I'm really tired, especially at night when I'm around my wife. Thank you very much
 

LionHeart

Member
It might be. Your testo is also low(ish) so you might want to pursue more healthier lifestyle to raise it (if possible). Increase exercise (gym workout), eat healthy and diverse food daily, sleep, eliminate stress and use good vitamins such as zink and perhaps vitamin D. If you're overweight please loose some weight. Hit the gym and turn your body lean and muscular. Those things may not cure you completely (time will) but those things help you big time. Not magical instant cure for this i'm affraid but when you start doing those things you will see and feel the difference.

Also get rid of the smart phone. That fucking device from the blackest abyss of hell is not worth your time. If you can't stop using smart phone, stop using social media and cut down your phone usage drastically. Those will help you as well. You start to pay attention to real things in your life. Internet is Satan i tell you. I fucking hate it.
 

littleboss

New Member
It might be. Your testo is also low(ish) so you might want to pursue more healthier lifestyle to raise it (if possible). Increase exercise (gym workout), eat healthy and diverse food daily, sleep, eliminate stress and use good vitamins such as zink and perhaps vitamin D. If you're overweight please loose some weight. Hit the gym and turn your body lean and muscular. Those things may not cure you completely (time will) but those things help you big time. Not magical instant cure for this i'm affraid but when you start doing those things you will see and feel the difference.

Also get rid of the smart phone. That fucking device from the blackest abyss of hell is not worth your time. If you can't stop using smart phone, stop using social media and cut down your phone usage drastically. Those will help you as well. You start to pay attention to real things in your life. Internet is Satan i tell you. I fucking hate it.
Thanks for your sharing. Just like you said, I would like to share more recently, I have also returned to the gym (about 5 months) and have used functional foods but really my sex drive is still not there, right now. I just really paid attention to this issue because before that the couple had very little sex with each other, so I still thought everything was normal, after thinking about it carefully, I realized that this problem seems to have happened a long time ago, I seem bored with everything, and even sex movies I am no longer interested in. I went to the doctor (like in this post) to see if I had any medical problems, the doctor said no but with a test concentration of 11.49 nmol / l the lowest of the minimum recommended by the doctor (10 10). -30 nmol/l) I'm stuck in the middle of thinking about whether I'm having a medical problem or a psychological problem, and I'm really desperate to think about it. I'm trying to figure out how to get back soon and pray for the people here or people like me to quickly get out of this situation. Once again thank you for your sharing, if you have any advice, please share it here so that I and others like me can learn. thank you very much
 

LionHeart

Member
All i can say that i have also went through all that what you are experiencing. And sometimes i still feel like it is going downhill. Good vibes and libido fluctuates but somehow i still can feel the big wheel turning in the background. I have no erection issues (thank god or satan) but libido and desire for sex/hornyness is just not that strong. Only real cure for this is just start living normal life and stop worrying too much. Let the time pass.. i stopped using all kinds of supplements i thought could help me with my low libido, but now it seems those very same supps were making things actually worse. I stopped taking them few days ago and now i feel better already. I don't know if this is just coincidence and good luck with the timing but i feel pretty big change for the better... but this raises only more questions. Like what the fuck is the problem? Low testo? Dopamine? Malfunction in the sexual center of the brain? Some other brain issue? All those together? Long flatline? Paws? Wrong position of the stars and planets in the sky? Wtf?

Who the heck knows. I don't try to cure this anymore. I have accepted it as a part of my current life and i believe time will work it's magic.
 
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