FrankWhite12
Member
Hey Guys!
Just thought about the progress I've made since abstaining from P - I started in march 2020, so more than 2.5 years without P. Maybe this can serve as a motivation for those struggling with P(MO).
What did I achieve?
- completed a master program with excellence
- gained a lot of Work experience
- completed an online course to be able to be a language teacher in the meantime
- got even fitter than I was before
- recovered from my 2nd ACL surgery
- developed healthy routines: healthy eating Habits, cooking, meditation (the one I am proudest of: since march 2022 I meditate every day, for 10 mins).
- started psychotherapy 2 months ago. Why? Because I was afraid of it, but convinced it would do me some good. Once you - metaphorically speaking - walk towards your fears, they get smaller, but you grow as a person.
- Had the best sex of my life so far with my last ex gf
- the best of it all: I feel confident, grounded, with moments of deep inner peace and appreciation; I am ofc still afraid of things, but I try to and always have found a way to just tackle them or start the process.
Do I still struggle? Yes, a lot! But not with abstaining from P, but other things in life. Am I insecure at times? Definitely. And that's okay, even beautiful. What would Life be without its struggles?
Keep pushing my fellow rebooters, everyone of y'all has a fighter inside of you. You are braver and stronger than you might know.
Peace
Just thought about the progress I've made since abstaining from P - I started in march 2020, so more than 2.5 years without P. Maybe this can serve as a motivation for those struggling with P(MO).
What did I achieve?
- completed a master program with excellence
- gained a lot of Work experience
- completed an online course to be able to be a language teacher in the meantime
- got even fitter than I was before
- recovered from my 2nd ACL surgery
- developed healthy routines: healthy eating Habits, cooking, meditation (the one I am proudest of: since march 2022 I meditate every day, for 10 mins).
- started psychotherapy 2 months ago. Why? Because I was afraid of it, but convinced it would do me some good. Once you - metaphorically speaking - walk towards your fears, they get smaller, but you grow as a person.
- Had the best sex of my life so far with my last ex gf
- the best of it all: I feel confident, grounded, with moments of deep inner peace and appreciation; I am ofc still afraid of things, but I try to and always have found a way to just tackle them or start the process.
Do I still struggle? Yes, a lot! But not with abstaining from P, but other things in life. Am I insecure at times? Definitely. And that's okay, even beautiful. What would Life be without its struggles?
Keep pushing my fellow rebooters, everyone of y'all has a fighter inside of you. You are braver and stronger than you might know.
Peace