16 years of porn addiction and difficult penis injury

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Spending time with her is very wholesome. Tell her you're experimenting with Taoist lovemaking (benefiting from intercourse without always ejaculating).

Focus your attention on her and your responsiveness will soon return. Meanwhile, testing yourself is usually counterproductive.
 
Spending time with her is very wholesome. Tell her you're experimenting with Taoist lovemaking (benefiting from intercourse without always ejaculating).

Focus your attention on her and your responsiveness will soon return. Meanwhile, testing yourself is usually counterproductive.
Even if I want to ejaculate I cant. Last time I tried sex I had anorgasmia.. she was very happy because sex was long, but i was in shock... Sex lasted 40mins But I couldnt ejaculate and felt less sensations. But as I mentioned before I dont know what is the main reason: porn addiction or injury to penis due to pump..
Or maybe both...
 
Omg. I hate myself. I relapsed again. I dont know how it happened... what is wrong with me ? Why cant I quit this ?

I have a girlfriend and instead of sex I am watching some stupid shit...

I want to get rid of this But its so damn hard... I am starting to loose hope.

One year ago I had a tragic accident. Car roll-over with full speed. Nothing happened to me. Nothing at all. It was a miracle. I dont want to waste my life and time spent in this planet. Why I constantly.come back to this stupid habit despite my promises ? I have problems in sex with real partner and I know porn is bad But somehow I come back always omg..how to finally get rid of it ? I treid 300 tines and nothing
 
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I haven't tried it - because I found something that worked for me. BUT - this is an approach that some here have found works:
 

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Omg. I hate myself. I relapsed again. I dont know how it happened... what is wrong with me ? Why cant I quit this ?

I have a girlfriend and instead of sex I am watching some stupid shit...

I want to get rid of this But its so damn hard... I am starting to loose hope.

One year ago I had a tragic accident. Car roll-over with full speed. Nothing happened to me. Nothing at all. It was a miracle. I dont want to waste my life and time spent in this planet. Why I constantly.come back to this stupid habit despite my promises ? I have problems in sex with real partner and I know porn is bad But somehow I come back always omg..how to finally get rid of it ? I treid 300 tines and nothing
Time for professional help? Consider texting HOME to 741741. That will connect you with a volunteer Crisis Counselor. You could also consider texting 988 - Suicide and Crisis Lifeline - https://988lifeline.org/

Alternatively, join an online recovery group and attend regularly.
 
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Time for professional help? Consider texting HOME to 741741. That will connect you with a volunteer Crisis Counselor. You could also consider texting 988 - Suicide and Crisis Lifeline - https://988lifeline.org/

Alternatively, join an only recovery group and attend regularly.
I noticed POV videos are the most addictive... and I have problem with them. Its like having sex with this actress.. Point of view is the worst for me. I always liked these Type of videos the most and I am struggling only with them
 

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Well, that should make your task easier. Avoid them.

Can you masturbate without porn?
 
I tried sex last night and lost erection immediately after starting penetration... girl was in shock and nothing could help . I dont feel a thing, while she used her hands, BJ. I dont know what is stronger cause... porn or my penis injury... damaged nerves, broken vessels etc. We did not argued But its sad when girl is horny and your friend just say - no
 

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If you had an erection before going in, then I would say it's definitely the porn. Because physically you are able to get up, but something in your brain tells your penis to turn if off when you try to have sex. I am guessing a true reboot can fix that kind of issue. Only one way to find out though... By doing it! Stay strong brother!
 

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Maybe tell her it’s not her and propose a night of “just necked snuggling.”
 
If you had an erection before going in, then I would say it's definitely the porn. Because physically you are able to get up, but something in your brain tells your penis to turn if off when you try to have sex. I am guessing a true reboot can fix that kind of issue. Only one way to find out though... By doing it! Stay strong brother!

Okay, I have some good and bad news.
Last night Monday/Tuesday I edged for 1 hour watched some porn... I couldn't sleep at night and checked phone. One thing led to another. I was close but i didn't orgasm.
Last night Tuesday/Wednesday (today) I had a Valentines Day with my gf. We had sex. There were some problems with me being hard, but as soon as I take Mensil which is VIAGRA (SILDENAFIL) 25 mg it helped me!

We had sex! Furthermore, I was able to ejaculate inside her in condom, which seemed to be impossible, because I suffered from deleyed ejaculation. It is amazing feeling to finish inside a woman. I have to admit, I even forgot about this for a while..

Maybe Viagra is not bad as for the beginning of quiting porn and rewiring with a partner?
I was so happy after orgasm. I thought i was unable to finish.
 
2 days 2 hours without watching porn. (I only saw a bit and quickly turned it off, but I want to be fair so this is what counts).
2 days after I had sex with my girl (ejaculated in a condom). I used viagra called Mensil its based on Sildenafil 25 mg


Everything Ok, except my gf broke up with me. Its difficult to explain But it really was a stupid reason and not my fault. Funny. Wednesday great sex Friday break up

I drink too frequently alcohol lately. Even now. I have to get rid of it.
 
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So sorry to hear about the breakup. Hope things sort out. I didn't read all your posts. Are you getting support for your less alcohol goal?
 
So sorry to hear about the breakup. Hope things sort out. I didn't read all your posts. Are you getting support for your less alcohol goal?
Things will not sort out. I have to move on and find a new one. She finished it completely (stupid reason). Probably her Mother didnt allow her to meet me anymore lol. As for alcohol I dont need support . Porn is way more challenging to get rid of. But now seeing problems while having real sex with erection I know this is a real nightmare. I also know the difference between real sex and porn..(I didnt have sex for long time).

But as I mentioned above I might have problems with erection not only due to porn but thanks to penis pump injury. I am going to do P shot in a few days - hopefully it helps. Have u heard about it ? Allegedly it helps with blood circulation, nerves and sensation.


Sex is way better. Without a question...
 

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Glad sex was better. Sorry about the other issues. Maybe if you stay off the porn you won’t need medical intervention. GL!
 
I noticed porn is not only used due to temptation or being horny. In most casus it is a remedy for sadness..

5 days since last sex (ejaculated in condom).
24 hours since last But quick PMO (again relapsed due to sadness)
 

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Yes sadness is a trigger, but you can teach your system other ways to feel better. Exercise tends to help. So does doing something generous or kind for someone else.
 
Just had "nearly" sex with my GF. We came back to each other. It was weird, because she gave me handjob/oral for one hour lol and by miracle I managed to ejaculate. I dont know if it was fault of porn addiction or my penis injury due to penis pump. Handjob was too long or with too much force and now my penis is swollen.

I think handjob are bad in terms of swollen. I had sex many times and never before have such problem.. what is best remedy for sth being swollen ?

As for porn 2 weeks without it.
 

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I've seen guys recommend both cold and warm water as being helpful with blue balls, so they may help with this too. GL!
 
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