16 years of porn addiction and difficult penis injury

Okay, so I have either injury problem or porn ED... maybe both.. i don't know and i'm literally devastated..
My girlfriend is very horny and always speaks a lot about sex and she is sexually open, but there are problems...
I took Tadalafil (strong viagra) 30 mg even more dose than I should and even though I had erection I couldn't keep it for long.. like i'm ready for sexual activity, but whenever we start..... after 30 seconds all is gone... or i'm putting condom and all is gone... Such a stupid feeling..

I wrote above many times that I also injured my penis by penis pump in the past... and i don't know honestly what is the main cause heree..
this injury... damages nerves/sth wrong physically with my body or it is all or mostly caused by porn...

Somehow in the morning I ejaculated but too fast and girl was dissapointed it was weird because it wasnt full erection let's say 70%
From the other hand, I was surprised. She was also, because once i could have sex 40 minutes (delayed ejaculation) or didn't have it aall and today 2 minutes lol..

I don't know what to do. Overall, my whole body acts creazy..
Viagra is not good in high doses. Headache, heartache (too fast beating) etc..

As for porn I'm not watching it, but if I used to watch since 2007 - then it's not easy fix!

I took other viagra CALIS (weakier) than tadalafil last time I had sex with my girl and I could perform well and maintain erection.
Problem is not having erection, but mantaining it..

I also had few days ago P-Shot. Plasma shot to penis, which should promote repairing nerves/blood circulation or improve sensation and it wasn't cheap.. I don't know if this even worked..

My girl is giving me a handjob and i almost did not feel a thing.. i don't know what is wrong with me... I'm devastated...
My question is does anybody have got problems with not feeling nothing at all (handjob, blowjob) or it's just me and the main cause is not porn addiction but penis pump injury from the past?
 
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Viagra doesn't fix lack of arousal...just as you have experienced. It only helps lock blood in the penis if there's arousal present. Reliable arousal requires the brain to become more sensitive to sexual stimulation. Once you have PIED, that takes time and removing all performance pressure, ideally while engaging in regular affectionate activity. Have you read "Your Brain On Porn?" Maybe you could use it to explain to your GF why you two need to take the pressure off yourselves for now, and be patient.
 
I was very surprised today. We had sex with my girlfriend - WITHOUT any viagra. MY erection was great! It was awesome.
A lot of cuddling, kissing. No porn at all 10 days or so..., no artificial stimulation at all. I'm starting to see a light in the tunnel.
:))
 
I had great party with my girlfriend and friends yesterday. A lot of good Whiskey :) haha... Morning wood, morning sex 10min without ejaculation.
It's weird that whenever I put condom I lose erection,, without condom is not only better EQ but ofc sensation. Is it normal for porn rebooters to lose ereciton while having sex in condom, but everything is fine without it ?

Is it true that VIAGRA locks blood in the penis but in the same time delete sensation and it's impossible to ejaculate?
Anyways, it was just a question what is the most important thing - no porn at all :)
 

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It’s not unusual for condoms to have that effect. It probably means you’re still recovering. Congrats on staying off porn.
 
Stopped counting but porn is 2 weeks off. Had some pleasure time with my gf, but either I have problems with substaining erection or i can't easily ejaculate (handjob) and it had to take 15 minutes or so lol. i don't know what is the main cause porn or penis injury due to penis pump in the past.
 
Last days plenty of good times with my gf. 0 porn finally. From one point of view it's great = no porn at all since loooong time. but does my robot really work if i have sex with a girl every 2-3 days often?
 
Another day another successs... Is alcohol somehow slows reboot? I mean in moderation.... 3 beers let's say.. Does it slow reboot?
Being totally honest - I am in the best moment ever in terms of quiting porn. 3 weeks or more (even stopped counting) lol because i dont want to count the days.
Many good dates with my GF. Of course some EQ problems, but a lot of touching, kissing, cuddling. I think everything is going into right direction.
I watched on Netflix some documentary about Pornhub and switched it off after 2 minutes... just because i wasn't interested... I thought it is waste of time and better to watch some thriller or romance... than to waste time on this stupid shit. So yes.. I am happy! I have will power... :) and i feel greeeeeat
 
Yesterday tried sex with my gf and it was the worst feeling ever. I wasnt able to have erection with condom or even without. Hj BJ nothing worked.. I felt and I still feel like Sh^@^# maybe flatline attack ? Girl was very surprised and disappointed. So do I...
 

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Maybe suggest the two of you stick to naked snuggling until Mr. Happy indicates he wants to join the party. Tell her it's not her, and that this sometimes takes time. Stay strong.
 
One hour ago relapsed to porn... due to depression, bad mood. It was fast (2 minutes) But Yes it was porn... Almost one month without porn ..My record.. I wanted to check my erection with porn or it was just a quick fix to very bad mood..
 

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One hour ago relapsed to porn... due to depression, bad mood. It was fast (2 minutes) But Yes it was porn... Almost one month without porn ..My record.. I wanted to check my erection with porn or it was just a quick fix to very bad mood..
Sorry to hear that. It's frustrating dealing with PIED.
 
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