Every sex addict lands on the couch with a complex past of abuse and neglect or chronic Internet pornography use that has formed and deformed his or her nervous system's regulatory capacities and perverted free, delightful desire into shameful, depressing dependence. Choice, ideals, values, and integrity dissolve in the acid of addiction as it temporarily neutralizes hurt. When neurobiologically programmed patterns collude with our highly sexualized culture, the social environment lends a hand to shape brains and sexual mores - usually in nonrelational and unhealthy ways. - AK. Counter 46