Problems NEED HELP ASAP :/

Hi all,

I am a 23 year old healthy male on no medications, I started watching P and MO early at around 14. From then on I had my first sexual experience at 16 which from what I remember I was just really nervous so nothing really happened it was really just foreplay. At 18/19 I had my first real S experience with a girl I had liked and wanted to impress, this was the first time I had really experienced ED as I couldn’t get fully hard and I couldn’t maintain it. I would try to cover up my limp wood with a ring but even that wouldn’t work. I then opened up to her and explained how I had been watching a lot of P and MO and it’s really embarrassing. A week later she left me and it got really down about my problems but was only making it worse and drowned my sorrows in more P and MO. Eventually I looked up the issue and found out that I wasn’t the only one with this issue and millions of men are struggling with the same problem. I then went a whole year no MO and P and then I eventually was in the situation to have S I was so nervous about it not working that I got all up on my head and I couldn’t get it up cuz of my anxiety. In the moment I didn’t know it was because of anxiety so I thought the whole no P and MO was a placebo and went back to my old ways. Now at 23 I struggle to actually find an intimate partner so that is the reason I tend to MO and often watch P. A couple days ago I was out with this nice girl who I met out and baring in mind I had been drinking and everything. We went back to her house and started kissing touching and it was really nice, I then performed oral on her and when it came to S I was fine for about a minute then it started to become flaccid inside of her and I wasn’t sure why maybe my libido is low? It surely feels low as I don’t even wake up with morning wood. Anyways I just pulled it out and carried on the oral and didn’t try S for the rest of the night. Very frustrating as she’s a really nice girl. Just wondering what I can do to fix this problem of maintaining Wood,Increasing my libido and helping with DE.
 

eNoe19

Member
Hi all,

I am a 23 year old healthy male on no medications, I started watching P and MO early at around 14. From then on I had my first sexual experience at 16 which from what I remember I was just really nervous so nothing really happened it was really just foreplay. At 18/19 I had my first real S experience with a girl I had liked and wanted to impress, this was the first time I had really experienced ED as I couldn’t get fully hard and I couldn’t maintain it. I would try to cover up my limp wood with a ring but even that wouldn’t work. I then opened up to her and explained how I had been watching a lot of P and MO and it’s really embarrassing. A week later she left me and it got really down about my problems but was only making it worse and drowned my sorrows in more P and MO. Eventually I looked up the issue and found out that I wasn’t the only one with this issue and millions of men are struggling with the same problem. I then went a whole year no MO and P and then I eventually was in the situation to have S I was so nervous about it not working that I got all up on my head and I couldn’t get it up cuz of my anxiety. In the moment I didn’t know it was because of anxiety so I thought the whole no P and MO was a placebo and went back to my old ways. Now at 23 I struggle to actually find an intimate partner so that is the reason I tend to MO and often watch P. A couple days ago I was out with this nice girl who I met out and baring in mind I had been drinking and everything. We went back to her house and started kissing touching and it was really nice, I then performed oral on her and when it came to S I was fine for about a minute then it started to become flaccid inside of her and I wasn’t sure why maybe my libido is low? It surely feels low as I don’t even wake up with morning wood. Anyways I just pulled it out and carried on the oral and didn’t try S for the rest of the night. Very frustrating as she’s a really nice girl. Just wondering what I can do to fix this problem of maintaining Wood,Increasing my libido and helping with DE.
Bro my history is the same as you, i'm 22 and only get exited and erections while waching porn, i have been trying to leave It for 2 years now but i could only gol 2 months without No PMO, and un those 2 months i felt like It was getting better but i started again. Now im gonna try again no PMO this is my day one. I'm gonna leave It for the rest of my Life as is a very frustrating thing and with 22 i would like to have a long term relationship. You can do It Bro. LETS DO IT. We can. I've heard It can las 3 months to one year to fully recover, i'm gonna try my best as my Life depends on it
 
Bro my history is the same as you, i'm 22 and only get exited and erections while waching porn, i have been trying to leave It for 2 years now but i could only gol 2 months without No PMO, and un those 2 months i felt like It was getting better but i started again. Now im gonna try again no PMO this is my day one. I'm gonna leave It for the rest of my Life as is a very frustrating thing and with 22 i would like to have a long term relationship. You can do It Bro. LETS DO IT. We can. I've heard It can las 3 months to one year to fully recover, i'm gonna try my best as my Life depends on it
Yess let’s do this! It’s just annoying and frustrating I feel like even sometimes it will take years to recover but let’s do this!
 
Bro my history is the same as you, i'm 22 and only get exited and erections while waching porn, i have been trying to leave It for 2 years now but i could only gol 2 months without No PMO, and un those 2 months i felt like It was getting better but i started again. Now im gonna try again no PMO this is my day one. I'm gonna leave It for the rest of my Life as is a very frustrating thing and with 22 i would like to have a long term relationship. You can do It Bro. LETS DO IT. We can. I've heard It can las 3 months to one year to fully recover, i'm gonna try my best as my Life depends on it
What’s your opinions on using pills?
 

eNoe19

Member
What’s your opinions on using pills?
Well i had the same doubt, asked here the same question, i've use pilla twice, worked really well, k think its right to use It, but not abuse, i think you can use pills un special cases, like if you hace opportunity with a very good girl or something like thats, or at a first time to take confidence, and then try without any pills
 
Well i had the same doubt, asked here the same question, i've use pilla twice, worked really well, k think its right to use It, but not abuse, i think you can use pills un special cases, like if you hace opportunity with a very good girl or something like thats, or at a first time to take confidence, and then try without any pills
It’s strange like recently I just can’t seem to get a full hard the most it’s been is 60/70 not sure why this is maybe I’m in a flatline?

it is starting to worry me as it’s like my libido has gone and when I do get it to 70 it quickly goes down
 

eNoe19

Member
It’s strange like recently I just can’t seem to get a full hard the most it’s been is 60/70 not sure why this is maybe I’m in a flatline?

it is starting to worry me as it’s like my libido has gone and when I do get it to 70 it quickly goes down
You should do hard mode reboot for several months to improve thats situation. Im into my second week of reboot and un i try something with a girl without a pill i would not get a100% erection just like you
 

TryingHarder

Well-Known Member
What’s your opinions on using pills?
A porn addiction has warped your mind (and your dick). You need to take the time to heal and reboot. Yes, not being able to get a boner on command is frustrating, but you need to look at the bigger picture. Porn and masturbation had a deep effect on you. Popping a pill just to get an erection isn't really solving the problem. It's like putting a new stereo in your car that is rusted out and has 4 bald tires. Take the time to abstain from porn and sex, and let your mind and body heal.

If you haven't already, get a copy of Your Brain On Porn and read it cover to cover. That will educate you on what's happening, how serious it can be, and what you need to to to recover.
 
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