There are a lot partners struggling with D day or how they found out the important person in their life used porn for what ever reason. And in my threads and many postings, I have outlined my experiences from discovery to the present. A documentary I watched yesterday day had this quote and it really hit a note with me.
”Only someone you trust completely can betray you completely.” “And the price of trusting anyone, is that they can betray you like that”
This is a partner’s mind fuck after discovery. I remember asking my husband over and over, “How could you do this to me? How could you hurt me so bad?” I think some of the addicts are in the, “but I didn’t touch anyone.“ Yeah you did, you touched yourself being aroused by what you looked at.”
And that betrayal of trust and looking at the price is what is so devastating.
”Only someone you trust completely can betray you completely.” “And the price of trusting anyone, is that they can betray you like that”
This is a partner’s mind fuck after discovery. I remember asking my husband over and over, “How could you do this to me? How could you hurt me so bad?” I think some of the addicts are in the, “but I didn’t touch anyone.“ Yeah you did, you touched yourself being aroused by what you looked at.”
And that betrayal of trust and looking at the price is what is so devastating.