Dealing with PIPE (i'm think)


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Hello guys, i'm from Brazil, so sorry by possible english errors.

I'm 21 years old and I have premature ejaculation, probabily induced by pornography, since the first sex relation.

My history is simple, I remember to start watch porn with 13/14 years as the same time that I started masturbation.

At the beginning, it wasn't something I did every day, but over the years the frequency increased. During the last 5 years I was masturbating watching porn about 5 times a week. I never had problems to get an erection or orgasm in masturbation with porn and I never had these problems in masturbation without pornography either, but I always ejaculated quickly and I could never control the time it happened. When I read on the internet that men can choose and control the time to ejaculate, I was surprised, because I've never been able to do that. I don't remember if when I started masturbation the orgasm was as fast as it is today, but when I had the first sexual intercourse my orgasm was fast and it was fast again, and again... In all the sexual relations I've ever had it was fast and I could never control when I wanted to ejaculate. I used to open a porn site and start masturbating while looking for a video I might like (which was also problematic, I liked increasingly violent videos). After finding a video, I jumped to the middle/end of it and with less than 1 minute I already ejaculated.

Anyway, I already understood that I have a problem with pornography and that I needed to stop watching. The last time I opened a porn site was in August 2022. I had a relapse watching porn on twitter in late December 2022. I haven't watched it since. I've had two sexual intercourses this year and in both it took me a little longer to have an orgasm than the previous ones, but it's still too fast and I still can't control the time I'd like to ejaculate.

I'm going to continue not watching pornography, but I was wondering if anyone could give me tips on how to cure premature ejaculation? How do you control the moment to ejaculate?

Thanks by the help!