Thiago1502
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Hello guys, i'm from Brazil, so sorry by possible english errors.
I'm 21 years old and I have premature ejaculation, probabily induced by pornography, since the first sex relation.
My history is simple, I remember to start watch porn with 13/14 years as the same time that I started masturbation.
At the beginning, it wasn't something I did every day, but over the years the frequency increased. During the last 5 years I was masturbating watching porn about 5 times a week. I never had problems to get an erection or orgasm in masturbation with porn and I never had these problems in masturbation without pornography either, but I always ejaculated quickly and I could never control the time it happened. When I read on the internet that men can choose and control the time to ejaculate, I was surprised, because I've never been able to do that. I don't remember if when I started masturbation the orgasm was as fast as it is today, but when I had the first sexual intercourse my orgasm was fast and it was fast again, and again... In all the sexual relations I've ever had it was fast and I could never control when I wanted to ejaculate. I used to open a porn site and start masturbating while looking for a video I might like (which was also problematic, I liked increasingly violent videos). After finding a video, I jumped to the middle/end of it and with less than 1 minute I already ejaculated.
Anyway, I already understood that I have a problem with pornography and that I needed to stop watching. The last time I opened a porn site was in August 2022. I had a relapse watching porn on twitter in late December 2022. I haven't watched it since. I've had two sexual intercourses this year and in both it took me a little longer to have an orgasm than the previous ones, but it's still too fast and I still can't control the time I'd like to ejaculate.
I'm going to continue not watching pornography, but I was wondering if anyone could give me tips on how to cure premature ejaculation? How do you control the moment to ejaculate?
Thanks by the help!
I'm 21 years old and I have premature ejaculation, probabily induced by pornography, since the first sex relation.
My history is simple, I remember to start watch porn with 13/14 years as the same time that I started masturbation.
At the beginning, it wasn't something I did every day, but over the years the frequency increased. During the last 5 years I was masturbating watching porn about 5 times a week. I never had problems to get an erection or orgasm in masturbation with porn and I never had these problems in masturbation without pornography either, but I always ejaculated quickly and I could never control the time it happened. When I read on the internet that men can choose and control the time to ejaculate, I was surprised, because I've never been able to do that. I don't remember if when I started masturbation the orgasm was as fast as it is today, but when I had the first sexual intercourse my orgasm was fast and it was fast again, and again... In all the sexual relations I've ever had it was fast and I could never control when I wanted to ejaculate. I used to open a porn site and start masturbating while looking for a video I might like (which was also problematic, I liked increasingly violent videos). After finding a video, I jumped to the middle/end of it and with less than 1 minute I already ejaculated.
Anyway, I already understood that I have a problem with pornography and that I needed to stop watching. The last time I opened a porn site was in August 2022. I had a relapse watching porn on twitter in late December 2022. I haven't watched it since. I've had two sexual intercourses this year and in both it took me a little longer to have an orgasm than the previous ones, but it's still too fast and I still can't control the time I'd like to ejaculate.
I'm going to continue not watching pornography, but I was wondering if anyone could give me tips on how to cure premature ejaculation? How do you control the moment to ejaculate?
Thanks by the help!