guys i need help

Hguerreiro10

New Member
Good night people! Sorry for the English, because I speak Portuguese. I'm Brazilian, I'm 22 years old, and I've always considered myself heterosexual, I've always been in love and interested in girls, and I've even had relationships with several girls, both sexually and emotionally. I started at p. very young, and over time I scaled to p gay and p trans, but that never interfered with my sexuality. Years later, seeing a lot of trans people, I had the courage to put into practice what I had seen several times, after doing it, I always had a huge regret, but there was a great force that pushed me to do it, I started to have contact through tinder, then through websites escorts and finally was accessing Grindr. I even went out with about 6 gay men, I was never penetrated in any of the relationships, I just had oral sex and penetrated. And it was when I started accessing Grindr that the problem arose, because I got addicted, I would go to the bathroom to fiddle around and I started to notice a drop in libido with my ex-girlfriend, at the time she was still my girlfriend. And when the relationship ended, I went out with a different woman and got bored, I couldn't penetrate in any way, then despair arose, because with a trans woman I could get an erection and with a cis woman I couldn't. Anyway, does anyone know if this is reversible? Is it possible for me to fall in love with cis women again? I need help, people!
 

Daybyday1988

Active Member
I went and am going through a similar experience. I became addicted to gay ads and chats that eventually escalated to getting oral by a few gay guys. I was always more attracted to the chats/porn and always felt disgust after the act was over, and really would have to fake being into it during.

I also have pied and have for years. Recently im almost 90 days clean and i am finding that i have the beginning stages of libido coming back and was able to have sex last night, theres also another member on here that you can reach out to with a similar experience named ketchup drool. I woukd also look up HOCD and get familiar with that, its homosexual obsessive compulsive disorder and its when you are freaked out about your recent escalation to that type of material.

Bottom line: yes it is reversible, just because you PMO to something doesnt make you attracted to it in real life. Even if you are able to function a little During the act. Through abstaining from PMO and not fantasizing about it, you will eventually recover. Get a strong blocking software like Covenant Eyes and have a close friend or one of us here watch your search history so you cant watch. Feel free to private message me
 

Hguerreiro10

New Member
Thanks for the words, I'm comfortable. sometimes I got away from chats and escort sites, I managed to have relationships with women again, but after relapsed, I returned to square 0. I'm going to continue with the reboot and hope that everything is ok!
 

Daybyday1988

Active Member
Thanks for the words, I'm comfortable. sometimes I got away from chats and escort sites, I managed to have relationships with women again, but after relapsed, I returned to square 0. I'm going to continue with the reboot and hope that everything is ok!
Good luck, find someone to keep you accountable and monitor your search history
 
I'm pretty new to rebooting, but from what I've learned so far, I think that the things we condition ourselves via PMO can be reversed, so don't ever despair and keep on fighting.
However, you may want to question your sexual preferences. I don't think there's nothing wrong in feeling attracted to one type of person/sex or another. What I do think is wrong is getting attracted to virtual experiences instead of real life ones.
Look for the real stuff, man, whatever you feel is right for you, but keep it real!
 

Hguerreiro10

New Member
mas cheguei a um nível que não consigo mais penetrar mulher, só transexual, vou continuar com o reboot e espero conseguir resolver meu problema e voltar ao normal
 
I think it is wise to continue with your reboot, @Hguerreiro10. Even if you don't get back to "normal" (whatever that means to you in terms of sexual orientation or tastes), it will make you enjoy real experiences and ditch the virtual ones.
 
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