300 days

[cancandeniz]

Im 23male. Its been 300 pornfree days. Well im not onto counting but i have still no libido. Yes my life quality has been increased amazingly and i wont go back to porn again. But the thing is as told u it has been 300 days and I masturbate sometimes tho but still has no urge against any woman. Actually i have no urge to watch porn tho for a while. Like 2 years more or less. I had just watching those days cuz it felt normal back in these days. Then i have started to pornfree journey and yes my life quality has changed and increased but my libido never came back. I was checked about my hormones and they were normal tho(3 times). Im also 5 year natural bodybuilder and my diet is high protein-carb, mid fat so everything is right. Idk whats wrong and i have no libido for 2 years. Plus i was tested penil doppler and erection was too much it stayed for 15 hours.
Do you think tinnitus and low libido is related? I have been experiencing tinnitus for a year and i think my problem might be a some cardiovascular disease. Can you guys give me some advice?

 

[Androg]

Congratulations on your progress. Sorry you're still not "there" fully.

Have you seen a therapist to rule out possible psychological issues? Are you taking steroids in connection with your bodybuilding? (Sounds like you're not.) Are you able to masturbate without porn?

Are you spending time around potential mates in friendly socialization? It's not unusual for people to need quite a while to "rewire" to real partners even after porn has been eliminated.

All the best!

 

[cancandeniz]

thanks mate.
-yes i have. he gave me 2 antidepressants and i still did not get the drugs cuz i dont want to use antidepressants.
-no im natural 5.
-yeah im social with my friends but they all close guy friends.
-i dont think im be able to rewire with real girls. Because i deleted all my social medias and i dont have any girlfriends. I can make girl ''friend'' with social media but i dont even have the urge to talk some girl. I used to talk with girlz and hooked up with em but this was like 3 - 4 years ago.

 

[swimmer97]

thanks mate.
-yes i have. he gave me 2 antidepressants and i still did not get the drugs cuz i dont want to use antidepressants.
-no im natural 5.
-yeah im social with my friends but they all close guy friends.
-i dont think im be able to rewire with real girls. Because i deleted all my social medias and i dont have any girlfriends. I can make girl ''friend'' with social media but i dont even have the urge to talk some girl. I used to talk with girlz and hooked up with em but this was like 3 - 4 years ago.

first of all GZ on your 300 days. amazing work.

I read on many sucess stories similiar things. Libido wont magically come back as your brain maybe never "learned" it the real way. I think what you need to do is to "kickstart" your libido by getting a girl (even tho your not 100% sexualy interested) that oyu find somewhat attractive and then try to slowly rewire and "learn" or figure our your sexuality like a beginner.

I am not an expert or therapist. i am just giving you the input that i read on many sucess stories.

GL my friend

 

[Androg]

thanks mate.
-yes i have. he gave me 2 antidepressants and i still did not get the drugs cuz i dont want to use antidepressants.
-no im natural 5.
-yeah im social with my friends but they all close guy friends.
-i dont think im be able to rewire with real girls. Because i deleted all my social medias and i dont have any girlfriends. I can make girl ''friend'' with social media but i dont even have the urge to talk some girl. I used to talk with girlz and hooked up with em but this was like 3 - 4 years ago.

Do what you can to spend time smiling and making contact with potential partners. Can you ask your friends to hook you up with some?